need relationship help

confusedblond · 10-06-2012, 07:55 PM

ive been going out with my boyfriend now for nearly 4 months but i think that he is losing interest. we havent meet up that much but we text each other quite abit but weve only kissed once and it was amazing. i know that he is my first bf and im his first gf but could he like some one else? he told me he hassnt lost interest but i dont know what to do? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

:'(

Eminemaniac · 10-06-2012, 11:44 PM

You've kissed once in 4 months? Really, once? I don't think he likes someone else but, what have you been doing to demonstrate that you're boyfriend and girlfriend? If you've only kissed once it probably feels more like a friendship to him...

Musicaddicted · 10-06-2012, 11:52 PM

I have to agree with Eminem. I had a relationship like that, and because all we ever did was hold hands, hang out, and act how we were before we became a "couple", we always just felt like friends, and couldn't get a relationship to work. There has to be something that makes you a "couple" to keep you together. Although, I have to say, you're only 13. I hated when people said stuff like this to me when I was younger, but it ends up being true: you're both going to lose interest at some point. You've a lot of growing up to do still, and it's very possible that you're just not right for each other. So keep that in mind and don't hang your heart too thoroughly on a barely-teenage relationship. Be that as it may, best of luck, and just try to talk to your boyfriend about your worries.

Eminemaniac · 10-07-2012, 12:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Musicaddicted

I have to agree with Eminem.

Chippy · 10-07-2012, 01:31 AM

I agree with the girls.

Musicaddicted · 10-07-2012, 02:10 AM

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I'm definitely stealing this gif of a perfect human for later use haha.

Eminemaniac · 10-07-2012, 02:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Musicaddicted

I'm definitely stealing this gif of a perfect human for later use haha.

HeezyB · 10-07-2012, 08:27 AM

agreed with them...

Miles Left · 10-08-2012, 10:42 AM

Agreed I am currently in a relationship like that and whenever we're together she shows no emotion no nothing it's like we're not dating at all and we've kissed once or twice? And I feel I may have to reconsider if she even likes me or if she just said yes outta pity which is never a good reason :/

asigirl · 10-09-2012, 10:14 PM

I also agree , you can keep on with your new life.lol