Welp

[Sioned]

back to the drawing board.

Of course she went back to her ex who cheated on her multiple times.

Anyways. Since i'm new to this whole pit of bullshit, where do I go to find women? I have no interests (none worth mentioning).

[Refraze]

Are you in school? That's a good place.
Hobbies, if you find one is a good way.
Going to the gym.
Parties.
Through mutual friends.
If of age, clubs/bars.

[Shortages]

Dating sites, there's plenty of people just waiting for someone to confront them about a relationship.

[Refraze]

Originally Posted by Shortages

Dating sites, there's plenty of people just waiting for someone to confront them about a relationship.

For teens, yeah I wouldn't suggest that ^^

[Sioned]

Originally Posted by Refraze

Are you in school? That's a good place.
Hobbies, if you find one is a good way.
Going to the gym.
Parties.
Through mutual friends.
If of age, clubs/bars.

Why would I go to parties or clubs/bars to find women that want a substantial relationship?

I don't have many friends, and the ones I do don't believe in trying to pair friends together.

I don't like gyms, so yeh

[Takumi Usui]

I think going to parties, bars, or club will not land you a honest longlasting girlfriend. I think right now you should live life and see where it take you. Your young and to bring drama and stuff like that back in is not good. I mean you can look on the side but keep your options open.

[Sioned]

can anyone explain the point of being a nice guy when all you ever get is the cold shoulder?

It's not like i'm the 'too nice' nice guy putting them on a pedestal or anything. They just seem to completely disregard anyone who doesn't lie, cheat, abuse, or talk down on them.

Is it much to ask for women to tell us guys what they want, not what they think they want but in reality it's the fucking opposite? I mean honestly.
"Wah my bf abuses me"

then why the fuck are you with him
Not like there isn't 5 guys with their hearts set on you, waiting and imagining the moments of valentine, christmas and seeing your smile in their mind. Yet all they get to do is watch you be sad and cry all the time

christ

[Shortages]

Here's all the 'nice guys finish last' bullshit.

Sitting on a forum wallowing in self-pity isn't going to get you anywhere.

[Sioned]

Originally Posted by Shortages

Here's all the 'nice guys finish last' bullshit.

Sitting on a forum wallowing in self-pity isn't going to get you anywhere.

lol okay, and me trying every day has nothing to do with me 'sitting on a forum (is that even possible? Last I checked a forum was a webpage, which is 1's and 0's which ends up being just a hard disc that is displaying information on the world wide web)

Anyways. With all of the presumptions aside, try again. Thanks.

[Shortages]

Oh, and he's a wannabe smartass too. Nice try, dude.

Of course you try every day... How can you be trying if you didn't know where to start and had to come here to people for where you should be looking?

Oh, and being a wannabe smartass will get you even lower than friendzoned, sweetie. <3

[Sioned]

inb4 she points out i'm responding instead of trying.

Well guess what? Don't expect the same thing to give you different results. Only a crazy person expects that. If something doesn't work naturally i'm going to find other ways of being successful.

Sorry if i'm trying to be a better person. God fucking forbid that, cause you've never had to do it before apparently.

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gotta love when you don't have to respond to their comment...nuff said.

"Lol he's trying to improve himself, look at him everyone!! hahahahahaha"

That's what i'm getting from you. Thanks for the contribution.

I wouldn't be so miserable if y'know, someone gave me a chance for once in life.

[Shortages]

I don't think you're trying to improve yourself at all.

You're almost drowning in all of your self-pity. That is what I'm pointing out. No girl wants that.

[Sioned]

Originally Posted by Shortages

I don't think you're trying to improve yourself at all.

You're almost drowning in all of your self-pity. That is what I'm pointing out. No girl wants that.

Then how the fuck do I get out of it.

Seriously. Nothing to live for, not like therapy is going to change anything other than someone's wallet.

There is nothing to enjoy, nothing to change and it doesn't matter if I change because it's the same thing all over

[Shortages]

A start would be to stop feeling sorry for yourself and being miserable. Do you really think anyone will see a worthy and happy relationship with someone with your mindset?

You clearly want to improve yourself, so do it. If something is making you feel like you have nothing to live for, get rid of it. Or better yet, make something to live for.

Anyone who has given you the advice you have asked for on where to go to look for women, you have turned down. Even if you did find someone worthy of your needs from a relationship, who says they'd want to if you're too busy caring about your own downfalls?

Every cloud has a silver lining, find yours and focus on it.

[Sioned]

Originally Posted by Shortages

A start would be to stop feeling sorry for yourself and being miserable. Do you really think anyone will see a worthy and happy relationship with someone with your mindset?

You clearly want to improve yourself, so do it. If something is making you feel like you have nothing to live for, get rid of it. Or better yet, make something to live for.

Anyone who has given you the advice you have asked for on where to go to look for women, you have turned down. Even if you did find someone worthy of your needs from a relationship, who says they'd want to if you're too busy caring about your own downfalls?

Every cloud has a silver lining, find yours and focus on it.

20 years and no silver lining?

Lol okay then.
Not like i'll ever find it unless you expect me to dump everything i've done and seen in life and just do literally nothing. Because I don't enjoy anything.