Constantly worrying about my girlfriend cheating on me?

GKMC · 10-23-2012, 08:39 AM

I try changing my mindset but I'm just always worrying about the possibility that my girlfriend might cheat on me. We've been going out for almost 2 months now, and I really do like her and she's crazy about me too but I just the doubt. I've already talked to her about it and obviously said he won't cheat on me. Any help?

CupCakex · 10-23-2012, 09:12 AM

how about you convince her to get your name tattooed on her so in case she does try a guy will see the name and freak out...
lol jk jk sorry
umm... Sounds like you have trust issues I do too and how I've worked my way around it is just to trust my bf no matter how much I was telling myself not too and anytime a thought where that comes into play I tell myself that he is not cheating because he loves me and knew it would hurt more than anything else.... thats my advice

Ashley12Marie · 10-23-2012, 09:38 AM

well if you dont trust the person your in a relationship with you probably shouldn't be dating them, because its just not a very healthy relationship

Refraze · 10-23-2012, 09:59 AM

Gotta stop feeling that way and trust her or it wont work.

Intermission · 10-23-2012, 12:52 PM

You have to trust her, if she says she will never cheat on you, trust her. I mean, does she go out? Does she hang out with you? Stay by your side? If she does that, then she obviously won't cheat on you.

Hann. · 10-23-2012, 08:06 PM

If she's crazy about you she wouldn't cheat.
I actually left my last boyfriend because he became so paranoid he would accuse me of lying about where I was and then called me a cheat! So your paranoia is more likely to destroy the relationship.

My mum said to me, why worry about them cheating? Worry or not, if they're going to do it to you, they're going to do it, so you can't stop it. You should spend the relationship happy and not worrying. If they cheat, they cheat and you move on. Don't throw away the relationship because of your paranoia and don't ruin the time you have together by filling it up with just worry and fear.

Shortages · 10-23-2012, 09:14 PM

'Without trust, there is no love'

Refraze · 10-23-2012, 10:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hann.

My mum said to me, why worry about them cheating? Worry or not, if they're going to do it to you, they're going to do it, so you can't stop it. You should spend the relationship happy and not worrying. If they cheat, they cheat and you move on. Don't throw away the relationship because of your paranoia and don't ruin the time you have together by filling it up with just worry and fear.

Smart women. I like this a lot :P

Takumi Usui · 10-24-2012, 10:16 AM

Give her the benefit of the doubt. You can always fear of her cheating on you and yeah I know the feeling I go through it everyday, but worrying about it will just distract you from doing what matters most. Making her stay! If your constently going on and on about her cheating she might in the long one, or break up with you due to your trust issues.

Kiwiji · 10-28-2012, 02:32 AM

Is there any specific reason you're worried? As in, have you been cheated on before? Or are you just worried in general?

Shellyyy · 10-28-2012, 02:39 AM

Stop worrying. There's really no reason at all for going around and ponder something that you are not in charge of. Trust her.

juicemoisture · 11-02-2012, 07:14 PM

Why would she cheat? Why would ANY girl cheat?

Girls don't like sex. They think it's gross. Therefore they have no motivation to cheat. Why else except for sex would somebody cheat?

kaitlin · 11-02-2012, 09:16 PM

pretty normal when you're in a new relationship but it sounds like you're either insecure with yourself or you don't trust her (maybe both), if you don't start trusting the relationship will 100% fail. trust me i've watched it happen

Elliiot · 11-02-2012, 11:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Shortages

'Without trust, there is no love'

This, read this.

You may aswell just resign yourself to the fact that you'll probably never be able to trust her if you can trust her this early on..

Riley5280 · 11-05-2012, 02:38 PM

Your probably not insecure and your completely normal. This could be be a delusional disorder. I'm not making fun of you in the slightest bit. If you are constantly thinking she is cheating and playing scenarios in your head of her with another guy. This could be your issue. We all have problems and that's what makes us human. It could also be past relationships and them cheating on you or even if you live with a single parent. Tell your GF how you feel without freaking her out and maybe she can help with the situation. If you don't tell her you could be getting mad at her for no reason at all at times and this leads to a break up and you looking stupid.