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Old 10-30-2012, 07:32 AM   #1
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There's this guy I have really liked for about a year and a half now. I recently texted him and told him I liked him about a month and a half ago. We are good friends. We started skyping almost every night now for about a month now. He asked me to homecoming 2 weeks ago. We went and it was a lot of fun. My friends made him slow dance with me but, I don't think he cared for it. Im so confused as to what we are. We aren't dating, but I really want too. I kind of feel like im being led on, yet going nowhere. Whenever I or my friends bring up the subject that I like him, he quickly changes it.

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Re: So confused.

My suggestion is that you either move on or have a deep, in person conversation with him about how you feel. If he continues to change the subject, move on. There's no point in giving your feelings to someone who has no plan in returning them back. Maybe once he sees that you're no longer infatuated with him, he'll see what he's missing.
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Re: So confused.

I have been told that, its just so hard to move on.
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I have been told that, its just so hard to move on.
Then distract yourself. Find a new boy to hang out with, hang out with your girlfriends, take up a hobby, a sport, exercise, volunteer. You'll realize in reality, he's probably really not that important. Either move on, or continue basically getting denied.
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I talked to him today, I told him I didn't like being led on and that I wanted to know if there was a chance at us being more than friends. and if not I would find a way to move on and we would still be great friends. He basically said, "I know you like me, and I have never had a girl do that and im not sure how to react. He says he would always defend and fight for me if someone ever did something to me." Im hoping there is always a chance that things will happen the way I want them too. I told him that I wanted to talk about it, and that we had too. For once he took it seriously. Im still not sure where we are but, for some reason I feel a bit relieved?
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Today I told him, I wanted to date him. He said he just wants to be friends.

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Re: So confused.

Rejection always hurts. At least you'll still have him as a friend! I'd suggest doing your best to move on, but there's always the off chance that your relationship will grow and morph into what it currently is not. Maybe he's just not ready for a relationship, period & that's whats holding him back.
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Re: So confused.

Its so hard for me to handle. He made me ask him out 5 times today, just to say no. Hes seen me at my worst and my best. Shortly after he said no, I lost my best friend in a car crash today. Its just to much. I cried. I bawled my eyes out in-front of him. Its impossible for me to trust anyone because of my fear of losing them. I finally open up and it hits me back like I thought it would.
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Re: So confused.

I know you really liked this guy, but was it just a 'like' Or a 'love' thing? You can only answer these questions. If he was leading you on, its better off to just move on, I know it will be hard but you will find someone better. xox
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Re: So confused.

It was more of a "love" thing. that's why its so hard. Ive liked guys before and got over them but its different with him.
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Re: So confused.

Normal girls dont get rejected. Normal girls don't take initatives, they are passive.
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I find this rude. Are you saying im not normal because I bothered to do something? Welcome to the 21st century where people do get rejected. Girls do take charge. Its not the guys job to do everything.
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