Teen Forums




Go Back   Teen Forums » Teen Forums Life » Relationship Advice Forum

Reply
Old 11-19-2012, 04:32 AM   #1
New Member



 
Join Date: Nov 2012
Posts: 3
Money: 370
Last Online: 03-10-2013 02:16 PM




Ilovemygirl is on a distinguished road




Need some relationship help.. gf is disappointed

Before I start, I'd like to point out that my girlfriend and I live 2 hours away from each other.

Yesterday my girlfriend Lindsay asked me if I've had sex before, so I told her the truth (yes) and then she started asking me about the other girl and I told her the truth about everything. I could tell she was jealous and I told her she didn't have to be and that I loved her. Then she said quote "I'm just not sure how I feel, I guess I just don't understand how I'm any different than her" pretty much saying all I want is sex, which I don't. And for starters the other girl and I had sex and broke up 9 months before I even met Lindsay. I understand that she is unsure about herself and worried that she won't meet my expectations. I know she is sad and disappointed. Don't get me wrong, she has every right to be upset but I didn't even know she existed when we I had sex. So I can't really change anything. But here is where the story flips. She's only been in 2 relationship before me and she cheated on one with the other and has given them blowjobs, etc but never had sex. Therefore I have every right to feel the same why she does. How am I any different that those other guys. But I don't feel that way because everyone makes mistakes but that doesn't mean you have to treat each other differently. It doesn't make them a bad person, it just makes them human. Long story short, I want to make things right but there is always an argument to be had when I try to talk it over and I don't see how I did anything wrong. I told her the truth and was completely honest and I have been 100% faithful in this relationship. I don't know how else to make thing better other than to show her how much she means to me and how much I love her and will care for her no matter what happens. What else can I do to fix this?
Ilovemygirl is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2012, 05:11 AM   #2
New Member



 
doppelganger's Avatar
 
Gender: Female
Join Date: Nov 2012
Posts: 5
Money: 179
Last Online: 11-21-2012 01:15 AM




doppelganger is on a distinguished road




Re: Need some relationship help.. gf is disappointed

You both need to understand that the past is the past and no-one can change it. Having had sex with other girl before you meet her doesnt mean that you are a bad guy nor you dont love lindsay enough, it just means that you have loved someone else before..
you should talk to her and explain that if you do not care about what she has done before - cos you love her in the way she is NOW - neither should she.
doppelganger is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Advertisement
 
Advertisement
Friends & Partners



Old 11-19-2012, 07:30 AM   #3
New Member



 
Nick_the_Maggot's Avatar
 
Name: Nick
Gender: Male
Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: Iowa, USA
Posts: 61
Money: 1,164
Last Online: 05-19-2013 12:23 AM


My Mood:


Nick_the_Maggot is just really niceNick_the_Maggot is just really niceNick_the_Maggot is just really nice




Send a message via Skype™ to Nick_the_Maggot
Re: Need some relationship help.. gf is disappointed

Do NOT lie. Thats the worst thing you can do. Just tell her how you feel about her. Tell her that you love her. Let her know that having sex with that girl was a mistake. Let her know how you truly feel. Thats probably the best bet. Hope you guys can stay together!
__________________
My username is not relevant anymore.

Kill it with fire!!!
Nick_the_Maggot is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2012, 08:02 AM   #4
Member



 
(8)jaseyrae<3's Avatar
 
Name: Lauren
Gender: Female
Join Date: Aug 2011
Posts: 265
Money: 3,610
Last Online: 06-06-2013 01:55 AM


My Mood:


(8)jaseyrae<3 is on a distinguished road




Re: Need some relationship help.. gf is disappointed

Girl sounds like a high maintenance bitch. Get rid.
I know that sounds like, well harsh, but it's my honest opinion. She sounds like she's hurt you in the past and is only going to cause you more strife. You seem like an alright guy, she's not worth it.
(8)jaseyrae<3 is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Reply


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools
Display Modes


 
Friends and Partners



All times are GMT +6.5. The time now is 07:10 AM. Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Content Relevant URLs by vBSEO 3.3.2
vBCredits v1.4 Copyright ©2007 - 2008, PixelFX Studios
Ad Management by RedTyger