11-19-2012, 05:32 AM
Join Date: Nov 2012
Last Online: 03-10-2013 03:16 PM
Need some relationship help.. gf is disappointed
Before I start, I'd like to point out that my girlfriend and I live 2 hours away from each other.
Yesterday my girlfriend Lindsay asked me if I've had sex before, so I told her the truth (yes) and then she started asking me about the other girl and I told her the truth about everything. I could tell she was jealous and I told her she didn't have to be and that I loved her. Then she said quote "I'm just not sure how I feel, I guess I just don't understand how I'm any different than her" pretty much saying all I want is sex, which I don't. And for starters the other girl and I had sex and broke up 9 months before I even met Lindsay. I understand that she is unsure about herself and worried that she won't meet my expectations. I know she is sad and disappointed. Don't get me wrong, she has every right to be upset but I didn't even know she existed when we I had sex. So I can't really change anything. But here is where the story flips. She's only been in 2 relationship before me and she cheated on one with the other and has given them blowjobs, etc but never had sex. Therefore I have every right to feel the same why she does. How am I any different that those other guys. But I don't feel that way because everyone makes mistakes but that doesn't mean you have to treat each other differently. It doesn't make them a bad person, it just makes them human. Long story short, I want to make things right but there is always an argument to be had when I try to talk it over and I don't see how I did anything wrong. I told her the truth and was completely honest and I have been 100% faithful in this relationship. I don't know how else to make thing better other than to show her how much she means to me and how much I love her and will care for her no matter what happens. What else can I do to fix this?