How can I get her off my mind when I'm away from her?

Underpac · 11-19-2012, 06:39 AM

So I've been dating this wonderful girl for about 4 months now. I was away for the entire first month of our relationship which was over the summer. I was unable to get her off my mind no matter how hard I tried. Everything I heard and saw made me think of her. We talked basically every day whether it be on Facebook or over the phone (she doesn't have a cell phone yet by the way). I'm certain that I am completely in love with her. I'm going away for thanksgiving break for a week. I really want to get her off my mind this time around because missing her really hurts and it ruins my mood. Yes we are in love, but I'm pretty sure I won't be on her mind much because she is VERY easily distracted. I might get a message from her on Facebook but that will probably be it. Can anyone offer advice or tips on how I can focus on other things?

Hipster · 11-19-2012, 06:45 AM

Just my 2 cents, but that sounds like the emotions are more on you than her. Just relax, try not to worry or think about her. Engage in a hobby or something that'll occupy your mind.

Underpac · 11-19-2012, 06:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Hipster

Just my 2 cents, but that sounds like the emotions are more on you than her. Just relax, try not to worry or think about her. Engage in a hobby or something that'll occupy your mind.

Thanks very much for the reply ^.^ I can't say I understand what you mean by "the emotions are more on you than her" though.

Nick_the_Maggot · 11-19-2012, 07:20 AM

Take up a hobby. Read a book. Play a video game. Do something to keep yourself busy.
I feel the same way about another girl

(8)jaseyrae<3 · 11-19-2012, 08:11 AM

I think that Hipster means that it seems you are more in love with her than she is with you.
Spend some time with friends. Keep busy. Don't hound her with texts the whole time haha

Riley5280 · 11-25-2012, 02:19 PM

I agree,find a hobby,go hang with the bros,go hang with your friends that are girls. She is doing the same thing with her girl/guy friends. Don't smother her. Don't question where she is 24/7. Your her boy friend,not her mom and dad. Iv noticed that giving my girl a lot of space always keeps the relationship healthy. I was always the guy that never trusted my GF and was uptight all the time and then one day I realized that If I let her out of my thoughts and just let her go do whatever she wants. She would literally run to me that same night. PM me for more details