Thanks guys for the advice!
I had a friend recommend doing something with her when i get back aswell, i guess ill do that. i should have money left over and maybe i can take her out for dinner or go see a movie or something
i also had the idea of having her spend time with her friends while me and my friend go.
if she still doesnt like either of the ideas.. what then..? i dont think i should bring it up right now cus shes kinda on her time of the month right now.. and seems to always make a big deal outta everything... ahh.. women.. haha