Help me...need advice ASAP

Izzy123 · 01-25-2013, 01:35 AM

Okay well basically I am going out with someone for the second time...I feel quite needy at the moment so I want a lot of attention and comfort and I don't think he wants to give more than he Is giving. He dont know if he appreciates me he normally just jokes about rather than complimenting. He doesnt talk to me much which bothers me but I don't know what to do...PLEASE HELP ME ASAP

Best Friend · 01-25-2013, 01:38 AM

Why did you two break up to begin with? You don't NEED to have a boyfriend, even if you feel needy. A lot of the time friends can be more comforting than a boyfriend anyway.

Izzy123 · 01-25-2013, 01:40 AM

I was on the phone to an ex telling him to leave me alone and he started ignoring me from when he was there at that phone call...&my friends arnt comforting I want a male who can care and love me

Best Friend · 01-25-2013, 01:45 AM

If it was so easy to find a male that was caring and actually loved someone, I'm sure everyone in the world would have a boyfriend. It's tough to find the right guy, so keep looking. Clearly this guy you're with now isn't gonna cut it for you.

Izzy123 · 01-25-2013, 01:47 AM

I understand that but help me! Do I tell him how I feel or will that push him away because it's not exactly how we're both feeling it's just me he will probably think I'm random and weird. Do I ask him to change in order for us to be together?

Best Friend · 01-25-2013, 01:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Izzy123

I understand that but help me! Do I tell him how I feel or will that push him away because it's not exactly how we're both feeling it's just me he will probably think I'm random and weird. Do I ask him to change in order for us to be together?

I'd definitely let him know how you're feeling first. If he loves you, he'll change and stick around.

Izzy123 · 01-25-2013, 01:53 AM

How can u be so sure tho? I'm probably just always moaning all the time! Read my other thread it gives more detail