I need someone's help? Anyone?

Izzy123 · 01-25-2013, 01:44 AM

Is there any one out there that can just listen to me and is willing to give me some advice I'm desperate

Eminemaniac · 01-25-2013, 01:47 AM

What do you need help with? Vent to me.

Best Friend · 01-25-2013, 01:49 AM

Just vent on here, I'm sure we'll all help but you have to let us know what's going on.

Izzy123 · 01-25-2013, 01:52 AM

I feel I have so many issues with the guy I'm with but don't know if it's just me being needy?paranoid? Silly or is it something I should address?
He works in the day so says he can't talk but doesn't send a little text during the whole day...when we go sleep he turns over doesn't hold me to sleep...instead of complimenting he just jokes about maybe he does this because he's shy to compliment or just doesn't see anything to compliment about... I know his family, some of his friends, seen me in the morning, told me he loves me, reasonably affectionate although I want it more! Help me what do I do????do I tell him how I feel on the phone? Or shall I just see how it goes? HELP

Eminemaniac · 01-25-2013, 02:02 AM

You don't tell him how you feel on the phone. This is definitely a face to face thing if it's bothering you. How long have you guys been going out? Because after a while the overaffection and compliments are likely to become less frequent, but they gain more meaning.

Maybe you are being a little needy but the reason for that is probably a lack of communication causing a lot of bottled up issues, hence you're talking to us, not him. Talk about it to him. It will demonstrate your trust in him (knowing you can discuss these things with him) and you'll be less likely to say it in a less appropriate situation. Bottled up tension always explodes eventually.

Izzy123 · 01-25-2013, 02:06 AM

Thankyouu so much you are really helping. When he calls me or should I say if what exactly do I say? Shall I say you wanna meet weekend? When am I seeing you? I need to talk to you? Are we okay? Or act normal and wait till I see him?

Eminemaniac · 01-25-2013, 02:21 AM

I'd be proactive about it and say you'd like to meet up. Don't make it sound too serious - I wouldn't advise saying "we need to talk" or anything like that because, and I mean this in the best possible sense, this probably isn't as serious as you think it is. Good luck, and let us know how you get on