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Quote from NightAngel: “I try all that, and i thought it had worked. Talking about things to my friends and parents make it worse. I can't find any positives in my life literally, thats why i tried to get away from it all. When i think crazy shit, my head goes blank. Its after i do something stupid i relise what ive done” Well then don't talk about......people have different ways of making themselves feel better......if it doesn't work to talk about it, avoid talking about it with people! Ok the…

Don't kill yourself. Be honest about your problems - talk openly, get it out. As soon as the suicidal thoughts start coming do something to distract yourself. And read some shit about people really suffering and realise that there are people in a lot more shit than you are. Even if you feel bad right now. Appreciate what you do have, look for the positives, appreciate yourself.

I agree with your statement that true friendship is about trust, respect and being able to communicate with one another... Perhaps saying that she ‘took advantage of this help’ is an extreme way of putting it – but I’d say she certainly took it for granted that he would be there. Yes, a lot of friends choose to run to the friend that’s closest to them in their time of need, but in this case this was also to give herself an ego boost. There are very few completely platonic friendships out there –…

ABSOLUTELY NOT, WONT WORK... Find someone your own age!

He likes you. It was his stupid teen guy way of telling you. The girl is is 'unofficially with' is YOU He was hoping you'd cotton on and declare your feelings. However you didn't. So whenever your ready tell him you like him, meet up, and see how things go!

I say you forgive and forget and move on. Look, everyone has different views of what cheating is. In my mind it's anything of a sexual or romantic nature with someone - albeit just kissing, oral sex, or intercourse....it all constitutes cheating (just in differing and more extreme forms). Some guys though are just way too posessive, jealous, controlling, suspiscious, paranoid etc....this often drives the girl away, they just need to chill out. I've dated girls before who are naturally flirty. I'…

Sorry Edge but I completely disagree with you! I'm not denying they were great friends - however, wrap it up in cotton wool as you may like, but this girl enjoyed the attention and security this friendship used, and whilst genuinely enjoyed spending time with him, also enjoyed the knowledge that he'd do anything for her and she'd always have a guy to fall back on an reassure her she's wanted when things went wrong. I'm not suggesting for one second that he banish her out of his life, throw the w…

Quote from lava-czech: “hello if you didnt get it before shes NOT family. Not the same blood not anymore in the same family because his aunt and uncle divorced. Therefor not family.” I still think it causes unnecessary complications! My definition of a second cousin is your cousins son or daughter.... Either way, I don't think blood comes into it. So basically - if your mum marries another man who has a child your age, you grow up together and stuff, are best friends spend all your time together…

Yeah that's true as well, you can't expect to spend all your time together, but to be so distant with you is wrong. It's early days in the relationship i'm sure you will work something out!

Absolutely, but to be honest i've been in this situation with someone before when they have fucked you over, and you do shout at them in the heat of the moment because of how frustrated you are over it. Some girls cry at the first glimpse of voice raising, and it can make the guy feel very guilty over it, and start feeling sorry for her, and thinking he was wrong, and putting him in the position where he thinks he has to apologise....taking away from the fact that she is the one in the wrong her…

No I haven't....it always puzzles me how your brother or sister could have sex if a) they knew you were near b) they thought you could hear them.... Surely they'd just find it incredibly awkward? Or do some weird people get a thrill out of the idea? Wouldn't be the nicest image to have in your head anyway.

You're 13/14 years old and complaining about this? You're only just into your teenage years! You have a lot of phases to go through, changes in yourself, in your personality, the way you look, your style, maturing as a person, experimenting.... Focus less on whether or not you fit in and how lonely your life is, and more on just enjoying your teen years before it all goes by too fast. Plenty of time for the boring stuff of real life and relationships - nowadays we're all far obsessed with growin…

Ok well obviously this is not a healthy situation for you to be in. It is possible that his sister going into hospital spun him out, people react differently to grief, but in fairness she's better now and out of hospital so he can't now use that as an excuse. He has no excuse for treating his girlfriend life this. However, you need to be pro-active. Tell him how you feel. Maybe you don't want to do it direct, so do it through email, internet, text message....tell him you want to know where you s…

But at the same time, is it right for her to end their relationship, which was going great and with a guy who obviously went out of his way to make her and her family happy, based purely on the fact that her parents didn't approve? I think he has a right to feel a bit angry at that!

Ugh my age is 20, my mental age is 38

No, don't tell him what you think!

Maybe it's time to move on. She's a bitch. If you ask me, she would have stood up to her parents and told her that she was going to be with you no matter what, had it really meant that much to her. I'm not suprised you started shouting at her, and you shouldn't feel guilty about it. If anything give her the ultimatum. You tell her that you will not be with her in secret - if she really wanted to be with you she'd be completely open about it. You went out of your way to make her and her family ha…

The first step is admitting you have a problem. Admitting you want to change. You've done that and it takes some guts so well done. But you're only going to improve things if you really genuinely WANT to change. If you do then everything should come easily. Rebuilding friendships. Cutting out the negative factors in your life (drugs, alcohol, no strings sex). Looking at job opportunities, education, courses, clubs you can join...and then when you are ready maybe even looking for a relationship, …

No one can help you if you don't want to help yourself. Some things that spring to mind: 1. Stop feeling sorry for yourself 2. Don't talk...act. If you want to make amends with your friends, do it. Talk to them, send them messages, emails, explain how you feel, that you're sorry, that you want to make amends. If they do then you'll be happy. If not you tried and they probably weren't friends worth having anyway. There's plenty more people out there to be your firned 3. Sort out your relationship…

No problem, it's fine. Try not to think about it, or read into it...just take it as what it is, an excellent friendship. I'm sure you'll probably will still have sexual thoughts about him, maybe even fantasise, and this is common in that kind of friendship. Just try not to where possible, put it out of your head and concentrate on other things Whatever happens, you don't want your friendship to suffer as that would be very upsetting for both of you.