You are strong. You didnt turn to drugs. I have periods where I am really down and you have to get through it. It makes you stronger. I wish you the best of luck.
Thats her choice. I dont respect her any less or any more. Its a personal choice and when she feels comfortable enough to give it a try that is her choice.
you shouldnt take in our responses into consideration. If you want the surgery then thats your decision. Personally I would see a doctor about your knee and ask about your active lifestyle.
Drinking I can only do once every couple months. I love to get drunk but I just dont like to do it a lot. I do smoke Hookah every now and then but thats it.