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Quote from Capt Sasha: “You need to arouse her first, to be able to get her clit. Some girls have their clitoris completely hidden under the hood.” i do. We usually have lots of foreplay before we start.

Quote from Nick09: “Did you try asking her? Seriously, the best way to enjoyable sex is just asking each other what you like.” yeah but she doesn't know what she likes. Were are each others first gf/bf and i know she masturbates kinda but its hard for her because she has vaginismus so right now all i can hope for is clit stimulation and i have been looking a lot online on how to do it better but it just never seems to help.

i have been trying so hard to get her off and i can't. whenever i try to rub what i think could be it, nothing happens. I dont know what to do!

Quote from ●● Z a C ●●: “teeth tattoos are cooler :p” no thanks you x2

Quote from HydroChloricAcid: “you can get a tattoo on your finger or underarm, just like Steen” no thank you

Quote from RiderzFan: “Well I dont know alot about tatoos but Im sure there is away to work around that somewhere.” i just dont think it would look very good.

well like, the thing is it doesnt really make me ashamed or uncomfortable cause its the only place where my hair bothers me and i dont think it makes me look that bad. (and i have a girlfriend who actually loves my arms lol) but my main problem is i kind of want a small tatoo on my forearm or my arm later in life, but i think it would look weird since there is hair on my arm.

i have somewhat hairy arms and i hate it... i'm a guy but i think it looks bad, but its not like i'm going to shave my arms lol. Its mostly bad because the hair is kinda dark. Anyone else have this that bugs them?

Quote from Ej4: “Just go see a doctor. Atleast go and get a diagnosis. If they know a cure to it then awesome but if not atleast you know what it is.” we dont have anyway of getting a doctor's appointment.

Quote from matthew21: “ hey, if it's a mental thing, it's probably related to anxiety you think? if so, there are very many kinds of tranquilizers (anti-anxiety agents) out there, and a lot of them are also muscle relaxants. sorry, but you're wrong that "you don't fix it ['mental things'] with medicine." prescribed legal drugs are the most effective & economical treatment for emotional & mental problems today. i'd bet at least 1/3 if not more of your friends are taking something prescribed by a …

also, i don't think seeing a doctor would do that much. and i would never leave her because of this.

Quote from Nocta: “Go and see a doctor. Don't think about not going. Go with her so she can feel more confident. Get an antibiotic or whatever she needs to get cured.” its a mental thing. You don't fix it with medicine. Thats why i was wondering if anyone else experienced it since it is apparently somewhat common.

this is my third topic with this problem. I was trying to finger my gf a while back and couldn't even get my pinky finger in. Now, months later i still can't. We now believe she has vaginismus. If ANYONE has any experience with this please help us out. We am becoming rapidly depressed over this and i really don't know what to do because she means the world to me. for those who are curious as to what it is, its basically the inability to put anything into your vagina. Its sometimes due to fear or…

Quote from EmoBunny: “Go down to the local super market and get a tube of water based lube, their like $5, and then when you guys are having fun together, get her warmed up, making out, oral, and finger her clit; this should help her to relax. Then when you and her both feel ready take a bit of the lube and put it on the tip of your pinky and spread it all across the finger. Then from there just work it in very slowly, while still keeping her relaxed and comfortable i.e. Making out, breast play …

thanks for the responses. I dont want to hurt her either though. Thats why i don't want to just stick it in, in case it really hurts

Quote from xXBURNXx: “Well don't finger her then. Problem solved.” i want to make her feel good and orgasm and she isn't getting enough stimulation with just oral. and if she can't take a finger, she can't take a penis.

i'm not even having sex with her. I dont think i need to lube up my finger...

Quote from xXBURNXx: “Her vagina is built for tiny penises man LOl Your fucked unless you have an extremely small penis then well your in luck” you just won an award for most ignorant statement of the day... congrats.

she's 16. and we always start with foreplay. We usually make-out for quite a while before we start, feel around and all that stuff. then oral, then i try penetration as slow as possible and i cant even get close.

yes