i will say this and let me know what you think. sound's that he's scared of taking that next step with his best friend who im sure he loves bc maybe he thinks if it doesnt work out he'll lose a special person to him. you should allow him to have his time but dont let him mess with your heart.
Certain people already have an mental illness and they can be calm one day then the next day they snap. And dealing wit everyday bullying can get them to tht point. Not tht I'm sayin it justify what they did but some people can't deal wit the constant negatively around them
I love my best friend and I'm not attracted 2 him it has nothing 2 do wit him he's great and loves me but I'm just not into the se0 although it was great sometimes its just us