The pob is edgier and the regular bob will look good on anyone. Check out Medium Bob Hairstyles - Pictures of Trendy Celebrity Bob Hair Styles for some pictures of bob hairstyles
I would go for a layered hairstyle with bounce. Check out Long Hairstyles - Popular Pictures of Long Haircuts There is a picture in the middle that looks very good and I actually want it myself
Wel sometimes you dont know what people have been through and its hard to earn trust, people who give out their trust right away are more suspicious to me