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I'm actually not that great at talking.. I can try if you want to pm me or something, but I've found a way to pass on while bypassing the fear or pain called nitrogen asphyxiation that I never knew about before and when I found it I couldn't stop smiling for some reason, so I really don't think there's any hope for me but I'm still conflicted.. just pm me or something I guess, I'm more comfortable on msn or any instant messenger thing though really.

Hey, I'm a 19 year old guy, incredibly lonely as the title says, I just need to talk for a bit. Okay, here's the deal, if anyone's heard of Brian G. Gilmartin's research on love-shyness, it pretty much defines my life. I haven't been officially diagnosed with anything, but I'm sure I suffer from Asperger's Syndrome as 40% of the love-shy do because it's so hard to overcome this shyness both just making friends or talking to girls it's actually 10x easier to just not and spare myself the pain. I …

Actually what I mostly meant by 'been with' was dating. Total, I've had two kisses, and both times I had my heart broken almost the next day. Same with when I made out. Two days later she sends me a text message that it's not going to work out. Tell me that's not painful to be given false hope. And to say "at least you've kissed and made out" and whatever else shows that that's all you want. I want a real relationship. I want someone I can talk to and be really close to. Kissing and whatever fee…

Thank you for the comments... It's actually unbelievably painful to be told no because I'm a virgin... and I'm not a liar, I couldn't just lie about it. Especially since it's such a sensitive thing with me. I can't find a different job because nowhere else will hire me, I already tried for a while. My friends number a total of three, all who often just ditch me or put down people I like, or each other. The problem is that I find it extremely hard to make new friends because I'm a really shy, int…

I'm 18, almost 19 and still a virgin... And I was dumped three days ago because I was honest about my virginity. I mean, I suppose she was shallow for it, but... it still hurts alot, and I can see that's why guys would lie about that. Anyway, I can understand being frustrated about it, cause I am also. Myself, I would never cheat, because I know I could never live with myself if I did.

So I've been laying on my couch doing nothing for two days now. I don't know what to do... Life has become extremely... Empty. You know, I try to the absolute best of my ability to be a good person, and it just seems like I just get screwed over and over again, and I always force myself to think it's my fault, whether it is or not. My job makes me feel like crap... school makes me feel like crap... life choices make me feel like crap because I can't make them. I have no idea what I'm going to do…

Oh, the one I've left sitting around was just some rum. It's probably okay, it was kept in a freezer for the first month before I got my hands on it and didn't risk putting it in there.

Well, I've had this pint for about two months hidden in the corner of my closet, but haven't had a chance to drink it at all. I'm pretty new at drinking anyway, but I was just wondering if it can go bad if it stays there for too long, or do I need to keep it in a certain place, etc?

Quote from Jade1000: “I havnt even kissed a girl yet LOL, pretty embrassing. The only thing ive done is basically fondled some boobs and thats about it lol!!!” I didn't get my first kiss till I was 17, and I never fondled.

Quote from Jade1000: “I know i was horny as hell when i was around 12, maybe not ready for sex though. BUT i do know for certain i was ready when i was 13 and have been since. My puberty started late 12 early 13, so yah!!!” Same. Except I'm 18, so I've been waiting for about 6 years and still the most I've ever done with a girl is kiss.

I am and I'm 18. It's depressing.

I've never done it before, but I think I'd be interested in trying it.

I don't really know what's happening right now... I may come back and update the situation if I can.

I'd like both guys and girls to offer their advice on this: How to lead into sex from a romantic setting with your girlfriend? So, I've never had sex before and am completely oblivious as to how I should approach this situation... pretend it's just a guy and girl alone, they both like each other and such, and they're already in a romantic situation, etc. Being the guy, how should I approach having sex with her? I'm sorta confused about it. Should I just come out and ask? Do something through bod…

I'm having an extremely difficult time lately in particular in getting over it because my home life is impossible. School is another story in itself, and is currently what's causing me to have trouble at home. Basically, I want to move out and get an apartment or somewhere to stay. As I'm typing this I'm sort of shaking because my mother could just come down and discover that I'm actually home at any second... I just don't know what to do about it besides get a new place to stay. It's this, scho…

So, about a year ago I fell into a major depression. I made it through for the most part anyway. I'm at a stage now where I'm sort of wondering if I'm through it or not. I feel normal again, nowhere near like I was, but I still don't enjoy the good times as much as I should, constantly worrying and such. Besides that, I can get little depression 'spells' that'll last for a short time, and usually over really little things. Just wondering if this is like a normal part of the recovery process or n…

Quote: “ Guys, just be grateful that you're not the ones getting pregnant. But you can still get diseases. ” I am definitely thankful, lol. But, I like to think of myself as one of those guys who would stick with a girl through a situation like that.

That's all I am is extremely urgent. I don't see how I'm arguing about being uncomfortable, because I know I am... I'm agreeing with you... Yes, I get extremely hurt by rejection. Yes, I have to get over it. I don't know how, that's the problem. I can't just stop it from hurting... I don't get hurt much anyway, because I don't get very many chances. I'm that afraid of being shot down that I don't even try.

Um... I'm just on Arial, I don't know how there's a problem reading it. I didn't argue that I'm not comfortable. But not being comfortable means nothing to me, because I want to get to the point where I am comfortable. And it's not that I don't like it. I love it, it makes me feel whole again when I even get one peck on the lips, which is all I get anyway before the girl walks away.

I agree with your last statement there especially. I used to be uptight like that myself, but I found myself trying things like drinking in desperate attempts to relieve stress and tension among other things, and it worked exactly as I had hoped for a little while at least. Don't let these friends of yours stop you from trying things that you want to try. Because my philosophy about it the last while has been that you can't judge anything or anyone for doing those anythings until you've tried it…