I think he was just uncomfortable about the fact he might get an erection from the roomate. And if it seems that the roomate doesn't care that he is bi and must know that there is that potential for him to get the erection.
The pill isn't 100% effective. Did she still take her pill just not at the same time? or just skip it completely? Tell her to stop being a douche if she isn't being responsible then she should tell who ever shes having sex with because i doubt he wants to be a father.
Quote from charmaine: “LOL. You need more stamina :wink:. If she's like me she wants seconds, thirds, forths....... errm :o” get a dildo it lasts longer
You need to get some confidence then you will be fine. If you think you're never gonna find someone then you won't. Confidence is the key to getting a girl, that's what attracts 90% of them. That's why the douchbags always end up going home with a girl at night. While you may treat the person better they have more confidence.
Even if you don't want to make it smaller, try atleast thinning it, get a little trimmer and use like a 2 or 3 and work your way down until its shorter. Should look a bit better