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Hello there. Sorry for the length... So I haven't posted on here for a while now... Things have been fairly quiet recently. It's all relative, though haha. So, there is this girl at my school (E), who I have started to like recently. We've been friends since before summer (not best friends or anything, but friends) as she's good friends with one of my best friends. We talked at school and at the occasional party which we were both at. Since school started back after summer, though, it's been dif…

If it were me, I wouldn't tell her until I was sure if I liked her or not. I've made that mistake in the past and it just caused undue confusion etc.. Asking her straight off to be in a relationship with her? Some girls might find it too sudden, others may not. You know her better than we do. If you do choose to talk to her about it, just tell her you like her.. See where things go from there.

Are you just doing this because your friends want you to? Next time you hang out, just go up to her and say "hey"... maybe a "how's it going" as well or something. Once you get into the conversation it will be much easier. Just bite the bullet and go for it. Nothing bad is going to happen. You're friends, right? What bad could happen by saying hey.. Facebook is also a good way to start, but don't use up all conversation topics on there, though.

Quote from Blastoise: “Monday is a decent reason, she may not want the hassle of hosting people if she has to work.” She doesn't work.. But yeah, fair enough I didn't think about that. ---------- Post added at 10:47 PM ---------- Previous post was at 10:44 PM ---------- Quote from Kerosene: “Because they have kids who always need answers to everything and the answers always have to be satisfactory to them. I'm sure it gets old having to provide a reason that a hormone ridden,angsty teen will acc…

So my parents are pretty cool most of the time.. However, a lot of my friends have parents who are way too strict a lot of the time... One of my friends asked her mom if a couple of friends could come over and watch a movie for a couple of hours or something. Her mom plainly refused and when asked why said, "Because it's monday." Why? I don't see the logic and tbh it makes me rather pissed off when people do pointless things for no reason...

Okay, thanks I just feel that each time I talk to her about 'stuff', she's not feeling any better and that what I'm doing isn't helping all that much. Well not that it isn't helping, but that there's just something else that I could do.

So one of my best friends is feeling down. She's been going through a lot of stuff, and lately she feels like she's just starting to lose her grip on things. She says she can't talk to her two best girl friends because she's scared of how they'll react. But she says she can talk to me about all this stuff but doesn't know why. However, I feel like I'm not helping her as much as I could be. I've told her that she can talk to me any time about anything that she wants to, and I'll listen to whateve…

Quote from jasonperson: “But if she tells me about her ex and guys that likes her, isn' that sign of saying "friend-zoned?" She also tells me a lot about her private stuff.” Well maybe she doesn't think you like her and that you just want to be friends. You're also someone who she can trust, so if she thinks you guys are just friends then that could be why. Have you been giving her many hints that you like her?

Quote from Linda: “That works :)” okay.. thanks

Quote from Linda: “If you ask her to go to the movies with you, I can promise you that she won't take it as you wanting her to be your girlfriend. You have to be blunt about it, and straight up ask her to be your girlfriend.” I know :p okay so just something like, "So I really like you, and was wondering if you wanted to be my girlfriend..." Obviously a bit more thought put into it..

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So after 2 years, moving to a new country, and 4 EXTREMELY confusing situations with girls (none of which worked out in my favour) I like this girl who I have a pretty good chance with. We are friends but not in the 'friend zone' (not that I think the 'friend zone' makes much difference). I asked my best friend to talk to her, she said that this girl thinks that she might like me but that she's still thinking about it. So I am planning on talking to her pretty soon and just telling her how I fee…

Hmm.. maybe I should just go with the gut.. I tend to avoid basing my decisions on this, though, as I don't think it's the most rational of ways to decide. If I do, that means waiting... again... But thanks a lot for the replies J

Thanks for the replies. Yeah It's not like me to like this many people so quick after each other haha. I guess it's cos I just moved within the past year, and so I've met a lot of people all at once. It's just that I become friends with girls (not in the friend zone) some of them I end up liking, but then nothing ever happens. Well something happened once but that was a couple of years ago and she lives in a different country now lol. I guess I just gotta stick at it, and see what happens... I w…

So the past 2 or 3 months haven't been the best I've had. I started liking this girl. I ended up liking her a lot. She was involved in this whole big confusing mess type thing involving other guys etc... She wasn't 'involved' with any of them, but some of them liked her, she liked some others. Anyways, it ended up with her getting together with this guy who I'm friends with. I was pretty bummed about that as I realised I liked her more than I thought she did. My gut feeling (which strangely is p…

well I had an interesting night at new years. We ended up cuddling several times in the sofa underneath the blanket that was there. She was being far more touchy with me than she normally would be. She came a sat down beside me, laid her head on my shoulder. Someone comes up to her, drags her off me and is like 'lets go for a walk!' Just talking to her. So the girl I like whispers in my ear 'will you come?' There was some other stuff as well, mainly just touchy stuff. However, I was talking to h…

I have already told her that I like her. She didn't say much, just that she needs to get her head straight and that i didn't want to say anything that she didn't mean. Yeah that's what I've been doing, waiting and asking her occasionally whether things are beginning to sort themselves out.

So there is this girl, S, who have started to like a lot more than I used to. We are both friends (but not in the friend zone yet). I told her that I liked her about 2 weeks ago. She said that she needed to get her head straight and that she didn't want to say anything that she didn't mean. She has never said that she does like me back, she has never said that she doesn't. We have begun hanging out a lot more recently both in school and out of school. We get along great. I found out from one of …

Quote from Kevmo7: “so whats your question?” i'm just unsure where to go from here. i mean to I tell the girl I like that I like her, just let it be, or something else that I haven't thought of...?