I just hope you haven't been 'Friend zone'd'. But, you may have been. And it's not "theres other fish in the sea" because i know How you feel. Just hope it works out.
It is most Certainly not your Fault. However, you're probably best to go with someone eith experience in The matter, and not just some dude (me) who says it isn't. A lot of help your parents are, ey? Tell them that they are not helping, and just talk to them.
Your mom sounds like a Total Bitch. Smack her head in. In all seriousness, I know its hard to ignore, but maybe at lunch, go hang out in the library, and read a book.
Being friends is still good. Just a thought, and this is from MY experiences, that if a girl says that you are 'cute', then you basically have Lost all hope. It's a shame, really. Best of luck.
Whatever you do, DO NOT lead any of them on AT ALL. And for their sake, i hope that you Genuinely DO like one of them, and don't just like them because they like you. Why are you asking US to choose? It's your decision.
What you really have to think about when dealing with stage fright, is you just have to think to yourself that You ARE making a fool of yourself, or that you ARE doing well, that way, you won't have the fear of being judged, if you are judging yourself. Also, when your not speaking, then just watch the other actors do their lines. If you aren't the only person up there, then you will feel a lot better. But if/when you are up there by yourself, just remember your lines, and don't worry that much …
Thats rough, buddy. Maybe you should smack her head in. Or the dudes head in. Thats not right for them to do anything like that to you. Just meet them both somewhere, and stop mid-sentence, and just kick one of them, right in the chin. I call it, the Sweet Chin Music Tactic