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  • I actually asked a girl out once who said: "I don't know you well enough." Then I was like: "Fair enough I'll ask you out again later when we know each other more." I waited for some time (3-4 weeks) and when I asked her out again she said: "I know you so well I can only think of you as a friend." I'm like: "WTF??"

  • A lot of good things have been said, about shyness, rejection, etc. But some that haven't: Some guys want to find the right time, therefore we wait because we don't want to make a move too soon. I actually heard that some test thingy discovered that girls take longer to begin liking a guy than guys take to like the girl. This is really strange to me as girls also seem to have a deadline for when you can't ask her out anymore because you're just a friend. So trying to wait for the right time is a…

  • Re: a little help

    Nemo - - Dating and Relationship Advice

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    Even though it's natural for guys to feel a little jealous I think this is HIS problem. You can and should of course try to help him work on it, but I think it's important to hold on to the fact that he's the one with the problem. The compromise doesn't seem wrong if you are ok with only seeing your friends at school, if you really feel that it's not ok then it isn't. Sorry if I'm not making sense.

  • Relax. If she likes you she won't try anything with those other guys.

  • Now nothing. If you care for her you will respect her decision to stay with her boyfriend and back off.

  • For me it went something like this: I have a female friend that I've known since before any of us remember. I don't know excactly when or why I started liking her I just did, but back then I was too small to even think about girlfriends. Later on I ended up asking her because I became too hard to hide it anymore... She said no. But we're still friends so it's all good.

  • Of course you need to stick up for yourself, and I don't mean that you should avoid disagreements alltogether. I just think that you should try not to make arguments out of stuff when it's not necessary, you can of course still discuss things but that's different.

  • Good post. I just feel the need to point out that you aren't necessarily a push-over just because you don't yell at your girlfriend everytime she irritates you. Some people seem to think that trying to avoid conflicts or just to solve them in a peacefull manner is a sign of weakness. I think that idea is a leftover from our more beastly forefathers, back when the physically strongest got the female.

  • I agree. You need to tell her how you feel so there won't be any misunderstandings and you won't end up hurting her as well. Maybe she is ok with you not being that serious and maybe it will eventually lead you to develop stronger feelings for her. If she's not ok with it, it's better to just break it off on good terms before anyone gets hurt.

  • Like everyone else said: Leave him! Don't talk to him anymore. Except if it's to say something really evil. He deserves it the fu**ing asshole! Like Hitch said he's a complete disgrace to the male gender.

  • Re: Given up hope

    Nemo - - Dating and Relationship Advice

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    Thanks a lot Hitch. That made more sense than anything I've heard in a long time. Yes I would like to meet a girl who I could be with for a long time, I don't really get the whole need to be with many different people either.

  • Re: Given up hope

    Nemo - - Dating and Relationship Advice

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    Thanks for the advice. I do know that this loss of hope is not reasonable or logical, but if hope was then it wouldn't be an emotion. Also somehow I magically regain my hope everytime I meet a girl I like and go for her, so maybe it isn't so bad... It's just the time in between I hate.

  • Well maybe you should just let her be, for a while at least, and see if she starts acting a little more normal.

  • Quote from Kase: “Lmfaozers. Okay...not that I'm speaking on behalf of the "hot" ladies' population, but those girls are sluts, pure and simple. They juggle guys for their own amusement, and undeniably, sex. Girls, at least human ones, like to be treated nicely. This is absolutely no incentive to start acting like primitive beasts.” Thank you! I sincerely hope you're right.

  • I know how you feel. You want to get on with your life and meet someone else, but at the same time you're not really sure you want to get over him right? That's how I feel about a girl I like.

  • Does he act strange only to you? Or to other people as well? Sometimes people distance themselves from almost everyone else when they just start a new relationship.

  • Your friend knows you like this guy right? So just tell her that you need to distance yourself from him and she'll understand.

  • Given up hope

    Nemo - - Dating and Relationship Advice

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    Ok so this is going to sound kinda depressing and lame, I'm not really that depressed I've just given up hope in this particular area of my life. When I was little I thought I would: Meet a girl, fall in love and that would be that. Then when I grew a little older I met a girl I really liked, told her, she said she hated me... So I revised my theory: I would someday meet a girl that I liked who liked me back. Now after a lot of failed attepts of finding this girl... I feel like my theory needs a…

  • Re: Inpatient hospital program..

    Nemo - - General Advice

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    Well since we don't know what your actual problems are it's pretty hard to help with this. Anyway therapists, doctors etc. usually know what they are talking about, so if you believe you need help you probably should do the program.

  • Quote from xoxo.allie: “Some guys get a little weird once they know you like them I dunno why it's just a boy thing maybe. Eh, it happens to the worse of us. If he really values your friendship he'll come around.” Girls do that too, at least the one I like does... As for the problem I think Allie is right. Just don't hang around him too much because that's just torturing yourself.