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  • sucks...more than a friend

    Oraia - - Friends and Family

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    Alright... this really sucks... So two of my best friends have been dating for a few years... I've known them for quite some time, but we only started hanging out a bit over half a year ago.... So... I guess I probably noticed I had a bit of a crush on her at some point... but I really care about them both very much as friends... friendship is the most important thing to me.... but anywho... some shit hit the fan in their relationship... i was there for the both of them trying to keep them cheer…

  • What I have/had: a home great friends family job What I want in life... I don't know... I used to be pretty content... when asked I would say I want nothing... I guess its been bothering me... but now it seems I'm headed toward nothing... I'm basically in the process of getting rid of my friends... i've got a few months left on apartment lease... I dunno if I'll look into canceling it somehow, but either way... the only place to go from there is back to my parents' place... and yeah.. don't thin…

  • Yeah, I thought I made it fairly, I guess not totally, clear in my last post that her religion wouldn't cause her to be uninterested in dating... but yeah, I'm sure it definitely plays a fairly important role in her life. And yeah, of course I considered her not being interested in me. But I'm not interested in that route which is why I'm here...

  • Quote from Openside7: “What you should do depends on what you want... do you want to get back together or move on?” #1 post imo...

  • Shwelp, I agree that it's possible that they may have spoken on the phone or chatted online, so having not seen the person in quite awhile may not be a lie... Talking about the relationship you have may or may not be a lie, but either way, it's probably up to you to decide whether or not he said what he said to keep from hurting your feelings. And yeah, getting the whole thing straightened out with him would be best imo... There's only one thing I can think of why you wouldn't... he may be less …

  • She seems to be quite into this church... but I don't think this should be much of a problem. I'm a fan of 'where there's a will, there's a way' lol... So, I think I mostly have to work past my shyness, and whatnot... I've also heard of people not dating due to religious beliefs, but I don't see how a religious person with this type of mindset could end up with someone at some point without dating.... So I'm not sure whether she dates or not, but this church doesn't seem to ... well actually it …

  • Old thread back from the dead... So I don't really talk to her too much, but we talk.. a little... anyways, I've been attending her youth group services, which I think helps... But my gosh, I enjoy these services.... most of the time, however, I find it quite ... strange when it seems the speaker at these services seem to 'sell' god to these already-believers by telling them they need to selflessly give themselves to god, and turn around and say god wants to bless you, and in order to receive hi…

  • Wow... I need to read stickies more often... this is probably one of the best things I've read on these forums thanks a lot

  • well I can't really see how you can practice in the mirror, with a bear, or a friend unless of course you've got something specific you want to say. If there's something specific I've got to say, I don't generally have a problem... unless I forget it >_<.... yeah, just general small talk is a difficulty at the moment, but thinking and especially expressing one's thoughts as I'm doing now... it's helping me open my mind a bit...(new blog post idea lolol XD) ... and yeh... overcoming shyness... I'…

  • Re: just some of my blogs

    Oraia - - Advertising Agency

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    Heya heya! Just bumping cuz I got some updated stuffs on my blogs.... and I'ma go ahead and do a couple more posts tonite and/or tomorrow when I have time! So check em out! blogger.com/profile/04061548818616206887 @Foxygamers and StereoSkylinee! Thanks! I'm up to $3 heh EDIT!!! NEWS!!.... 2 new posts in Positivity and 1 new post in Love.... Should be a new Life post soon!

  • So... I've been away from this forum a little while... Going to work... hanging out with friends, friends' friends, and other people, and when to FANIMECON!!! YEAH Anyway... I made sure to keep a little bit of my attention on myself... as if I were my own research subject or something >_> Anyway.... I've come to the conlclusion that I don't have trouble speaking to anyone at all (unless their really really pretty....man or woman...) or if I have an interest in them.... So yeah... I guess the onl…

  • Biggest part imo is to totally decide to 'give up' (for lack of a better phrase) on that person.... I suppose it doesn't help if you're not the type to stand strong with your decisions(like me) but I've realized there are unlimited chances to practice doing so, like forgetting an old love... Falling for someone may or may not be a conscious decision, but to or not to pursue them is...(I think that's the better phrasing I was looking for) Hope this helps

  • Re: Love

    Oraia - - Dating and Relationship Advice

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    Be happy that she's happy, and trust that you'll find someone to make you happy, they trust that you hold for that person that you may or may not currently know, should help a lot

  • Re: Heavy

    Oraia - - Dating and Relationship Advice

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    There is no point to this thread... it should be closed I'm really sorry I posted it... Sorry for bumping it up again... but I figure there's a possibility of it being bumped... so yeah... don't post here... waste of a thread...

  • Re: Heavy

    Oraia - - Dating and Relationship Advice

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    lolol, thanks... this kinda cheers me up, but also kinda annoys me... There's plenty of people asking for help on these forums... and I've seen many of them dismissed as trolls.... For those who aren't, saying they are is really fucked up....

  • Re: Heavy

    Oraia - - Dating and Relationship Advice

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    Lol... it's just the way I talk Mr. male ... though I suppose, it is weird... guess I'll think about that

  • Heavy

    Oraia - - Dating and Relationship Advice

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    So, I sorta indirectly invited this girl to see a movie.... she declined and sorta indirectly said "i'm not interested"Hit me fairly hard... made my chest feel really heavy... kinda like when ur minding ur own business and someone pops out of nowhere scaring the shit outta you kinda heavy...I dunno...Anyways, all the indirect-ness is telling me I shouldn't give up...I dunno... Oh yeah...So I been talking to a few females quite casually, so speaking to girls in general isn't a problem anymore....…

  • Re: just some of my blogs

    Oraia - - Advertising Agency

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    Just bumping to say These blogs really do get updated.... umm almost daily... course there are times when ya know... theres a bit of a dry spell... but yeah Guess I should say what there is... I blog about Life, Love, Drugs, miscellaneous stuff.... movies... and staying positive... Blogger: User Profile: Robert Ehlers Yep... so check em out... there's 6 separate blogs links down on the bottom of the page... Or here if you wanna go straight to one Life= Life Love= Endless Love Misc= Misc- On-the-…

  • Hmm... yeah so... I was gonna ask about her book... but yeah I really can't interrupt her reading.... And its usually either she's reading or working... and I really hate to interrupt people.... hopefully I'll get a chance to talk to her a bit tonite at youth group.... doubt it tho..... but that won't keep me from going...

  • Well to be positive or negative about a E-relationships is one thing..... but to think their pathetic?.... I guess the poll shoulda had more answers....