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I would be careful with how you go about things...because she is taken. But eye contact is a lot more important than people realize. I had had that same kind of situation with a guy friend of mine about a year ago but didn't think anything about it...i mean...it was only eye contact right? He wasn't hitting on me. I found out recently he had been in love with me. Weird huh? So i think you are interpreting it just right, but i wouldn't push anything. She does have a boyfriend.

haha that was annoying...but funny

I would tell him that Katie is your best friend and that when he hurts her, he's hurting you too. This behavior is kinda showing what type of a guy he is....and how he might treat you if you were to break up. Tell him to straighten up, and if he does, then forgive but don't forget. And if he doesn't, it might be time to find a new guy.

the alcohol gives you confidence, simple as that. I had the exact kind of relationship with a guy. We both liked each other, and whenever we got drunk we would hook up. But sober...i would try and talk about what happened and he'd get really shy. I didn't find out until months later that he'd been crushing on me for about a year. If i were you, I would say something to him, and if he blows you off, forget about it. Those "only confident while drunk" guys suck lol

lol yeah! it was one simple request. U guys do the city thing all the time, it's not gunna kill her to chill for one weekend.

That is a very bad situation. First of all, you never want to be "the other girl." It's a reputation you'll be branded with for life if you try to get with another girls man. And second of all...there is a reason it is illegal for a 14 year old to date a 19 year old. The maturity difference is huge. I know...i didn't believe it either when i was 14. I didn't think that age mattered. But trust me, you may not want to do anything sexual, but he definitely does, so it wouldn't work. Look for a hott…

Wow...talk about really really shy. But yeah i agree w/ the above posts, talk to him about it and trying going out every once in a while. He'll eventually open up. If he doesnt...then i would go shopping for a new one lol

Agreed, ask guy 2. Besides, there is nothing wrong with asking someone else if u get turned down, just don't tell guy 1 lol

Because honestly, at least in every relationship i've had or my friends have had, the guy prizes the girl more if he's had to work for her. Girls are more likely to stay interested in a guy once they've started dating, but guys get bored if they haven't invested any time or work. At least from my experience. For guys, its all about the chase, so i let them chase lol

16. And i'm kind of glad i've experiment with alcohol younger than like..college age. Because i have so many friends that waited and then went crazy in college. So many bad things happened to them. I already know what it's like, and i'm over it lol

Quote from dagingercode: “um in an oven” An oven?? wtf? lol

I definitely think you will slim out soon. I went through a period like that around your age also. Then i grew a few inches, matured, and lost all that weight. Everything that i can see you are doing is fantastic. Keep it up. If in a few years it's not going away and you are still keeping up your healthy habits then you may want to consider seeing a doctor. They might be able to help.

Fake it till you make it is my motto lol if you don't have any confidence you hafta fake it like you're the hottest thing out there. i'm not saying you hafta be loud or anything like that. Even the quiet people put off that confident vibe. Just keep telling yourself that your opinion matters and don't even give it a second thought if someone doesn't like it. Plus, college, so i hear, is totally different from high school. No more drama. So have a blast!

Don't let fear get in the way. Besides, if you feel this strongly, it would be far worse not to ask her out right? lol so go for it

If he doesn't accept you then it's whatever. Now i wouldn't have suggested sleeping with a guy that u hardly know at all lol since that makes his possible rejection a little more personal.....but don't let it get to you either way.

Keep trying to talk to her until she finally listens. Maybe get your dad in on it too. Plus, don't take anything negative she says about you seriously. Just because you're not as smart as someother girl doesn't make you stupid. Stay positive and hang in there!

Running away really never solves anything. It's more trouble than its worth. If the problem can be solved then work on it. If it's serious, maybe you could live with someone else?

Talk to your best friend about it. Maybe he'll understand. Don't let girl problems get in the way of a friendship because if things don't work out with this girl you will have lost two important people in your life. If things seem okay with your friend then i would make some kind of a move on this girl. Not too strong. Best of luck, these kind of things are tricky!

I think your feelings are totally normal. However, you can't let fear control your life. Remember that everything you did played out right for you in the end, so dont change your plans in hopes to prevent something from happening. Everything happens for a reason and some things are beyond your control. So don't stress.

Thanks guys that really helped lol and you're right! I'll def. work on it