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Yeah these are just examples. There could be more beliefs and emotions in the "I felt" section, but I just wrote these examples so you can get an idea of it.

I already posted this in the Friends and Family section, and I decided to post it here too because it is also relevant to Dating and Relationships. Here is a very useful, and beneficial technique of communication I have learned in the past. The Bradshaw Model, can effectively reduce and neutralize any anger or any other emotions that you have with someone. You can use this on your mom,dad,friends, girlfriend/boyfriend, or any family members. This is proven to resolve any conflicts you have with …

Here is a very useful, and beneficial technique of communication I have learned in the past. The Bradshaw Model, can effectively reduce and neutralize any anger or any other emotions that you have with someone. You can use this on your mom,dad,friends, girlfriend/boyfriend, or any family members. This is proven to resolve any conflicts you have with someone, if you use it right. Also, this can be used by two people that has conflicts with each other. I will show you an example. Here is The Brads…

Quote from abdeldisease.: “no, because forum members do not have a personal relationship with the person who needs help... it certainly helps when there's some personal connection between the people, im sure the OP would value the advice a lot more .. we're all humans, but you're technically a stranger.” But as humans, we all have been through or experienced what others did, so we know where they are coming from, and therefore we know which advices/feedback to give. Personal relation does help b…

Help from forum members is just as good as help from friends. We're all humans, right?

Quote from Gooeyswat: “Thanks all, and I know I do need to try and be a little more optimistic. I'm doin my best with help from friends. I'm glad they force me to accept their help. They know I kind of need to be forced or convinced into things. Which I know, is also a downfall at times. But I'm working on that as well. but i would really like some advice on how to deal with my mom and step dad. if i tell them the truth my mom will simply tell me to suck it up. i can deal with her mocking me say…

Quote from Stacey: “I am major deperessed these days because i hate my nose and also i cut myself. i can't afford nose surgery and i just dont know what to do i am wondering if anyone here has used this new product called the nose huggie ?its suppose to make your nose slimmer and smaller? please any1 who uzed it can you post review or something cus i dont wanna waste 20 bucks for nothing! i found out about it cus i read in a magzine that ashlee simpson used it?? can someone confirm this product …

Quote from Gooeyswat: “i agree completely with you on everything you just said. and i did realize this about the money issue a while ago, and everyone does say I'm too nice. But that's just me. I really am trying to stop being as nice, but not mean. Just setting limits on how nice i should be. and my friends are helping. thats why i felt like it was getting better before. i dont know why i'm feeling like this now when nothing is really wrong.” You can start working on being more optimistic about…

Quote from ThisIsNotMyReality: “I think I’m crazy. I push everyone away and I don’t feel emotions in the right manner. It’s like, I pull everyone in towards me, then I shove them away. I’m okay with being alone because even surrounded by so called friends I still feel alone. Everyone surrounding me constantly is just annoying me now. I see all the fake faces and fake concerns and just the fake exteriors, I see their real motives, and I don’t want anything to do with them. I think there’s a glitc…

Quote from Gooeyswat: “when i say I feel guilty for no real reason, I mean like, guilty over little things that I've done that I know I shouldn't feel guilty about. Like bugging a friend for money he owes me and he makes me feel bad about asking all the time. And then I feel regretful that I asked him for the money. Also, I am trying. I have joined clubs with friends to try and get out more, and socialize, even when I don't want to. So I'm not just sitting around saying, boo hoo I'm sad and no o…

What is the reason for you to hate yourself?

If you don't get away from your friends, you will put yourself in danger of doing those drugs again. I replied to your pm btw.

Quote from hibye303: “Thanks in advance for reading this, I'd really appreciate any feedback and advice. Heres some background on my story: First off theres three main people in this. Me My best friend whos a guy, lets call him Jason My best friend whos a girl, lets call her Lily. So Me and Lily were best friends for the last six years. Then around September last year we fell out a few times and since then we barely talk anymore. We still consider each other best friends but we're not close anym…

Quote from Gooeyswat: “I don't really see this as much of an emergency as other people here... just I dunno. Well, I've been depressed for a while, and I thought I was doing better. But then, maybe around 2 days ago, I started having thoughts about suicide again...Yesterday I spent the entire day trying to fall asleep so I would stop thinking. Things kept coming into my head, different ways to kill myself, and feelings of guilt and regret for nothing really. It was like my mind was mumbling and …

Quote from abdeldisease.: “this isnt a therapeutic matter its a medical emergency. thats what you're refusing to understand.” I agree, cutting/breaking arms is in need of medical emergency, but as for the problems/issues causing this, it is matter of self-evaluation and yes, is a matter of therapy. I strongly believe she can overcome this with our help, and the willingness to help herself. There is really no need for a "medical emergency" at this point as she is willingly compliant and searching…

Quote from Austin334: “I haven't done any drugs in a couple days but now I'm super depressed I attempted suicide yesterday by overdoseing but fail shut I start doing drugs agian (I'm 13 so I can't go to a rehab clinic and I'm not telling any1 about it unless it anonymous like this):(” May I ask what drugs are you addicted to? Being depressed when you are not on drugs is normal. Consider it as the recovering process. It's going to be difficult at first, no one said it would be easy. Your body/min…

Jealousy is a normal emotion. You have the right to react that way. It seems to me as if your friend don't care for you as much. I think she enjoys talking to a older person because they are more experienced. Your choices are to confront her and see where that takes you-or move on. There are a lot of real friends out there that will be there for you no matter what and they will not replace you. The only problem is finding that real friend.

Quote from abdeldisease.: “the advice and feedback should be to go GET advice and feedback, from people who specialize in this. an internet forum will create NO lasting change. there's not even near enough personal impact.” There are many people who are capable of giving good advice/feedback without having to be a professional, like many of the support leaders here. It's really up to the person who is getting the advice/feedback to apply them correctly. By giving them advice/feedback, they can t…

Quote from Neelansh: “now a days i dun kno i've becum sum type of syco......i dun y dis is happning 2 m...i usd 2 hav a lot of frnds.....bt now i jus kinda hate dem.....i kno dey hav done nothin wrong ndat i'm d culprit...bt i hav no cntrl ovr mself.... dat is jus d 1 thing dats happening 2 m anothr part of dis dat i'm missing sum1 bt i dun kno who who d f***ing prsn is he.... dese wrries r eating m up n i'm nt able to cncentrate on anything so........ i wanna ask evry1for suggestion..n also who…

Quote from supersonic92: “I wouldn't worry too much. I'm going to be 18 in a couple months and I've never kissed or held hands with a girl before. You have your whole life ahead of you to stress over relationships. You're young, have fun with your life right now! There's nothing wrong with not having any sparks with guys you know now, you're bound to meet someone eventually that you'll have feelings for. @ScientificM1nD- your bf/gf can be your best friend at the same time” I understand that. The…