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yeah depends on what kind of aggressive it is...what kind of way of keeping it real?

Well there are certain signs that you can look out for , or you can ask one of her friends, they are usually the best source.

If you do find out she likes you, find out if she likes to be asked out in a big way or little way. Because if its a big thing, you could draw her something and leave it inside her locker as a cute way to ask her out, but if she doesn't like those kinds of things, find out what she likes to do and ask her out to that activity! You'll be fine.

Ok im obnoxious for answering everything I know, But i totally get what you mean! Dont give up hope. IM a hopeless romantic so, go for it, try to find out what is what! Im cheering for you man!:)

Yeah I mean I dont care about the college virgin thing, thats just odd. I just want to have it with someone I love. But yeah im starting to think it might be a huge mistake, I mean we are talking about the summer and how I may be leaving early and we decided that long distance may not happen. So I am rethinking the situation. im just confused.

Hmm I dont know if this goes for everyone, but I have a firm belief that there is always someone out there, you are just being distracted by something else to notice them. I may be off base, but im sure if this girl doesnt work there might be another girl out there that is great. Thats how I met my boyfriend of 2 years, I stopped hoping for this boy to come around and he was just there waiting for me. And we are so happy now so...good luck!

Yeah exactly, i see your point there. Just make her see you could be worth it i guess.

Yeah she kind of sounds interested. Hey you could ask her friends about it, like one of her non gossipy friends, ask if she is truly interested, someone you can trust. Then ask her out. Go for it man.

Ok sorry harsh time. are you kidding! one youre not officially dating this girl and youre thinking about sex, hello! It aint going to happen if she finds out. Wait at least until youre like going out or something. one sex, not only std worry or hello pregnancy, is not a think you just like jump into. Did you know some condoms dont fit? or break easily? or might give you a rash? Or that some girls may not be on the pill? Or that you can get an std almost anytime you have sex, not including anythi…

Hmm some hope, but I mean maybe she is just holding on to some hope that hell be the one. just give it time, youll see what you need to do. You sound very rational. but hey after some time if shes not budging, move on, itll be good for ya. But i would say stick in there for a little while longer. Good luck!

Yeah Lindas absolutely right dude! Speak man speak!

Yeah I mean you can like flirt in like a casual way, but if she catches on that youre like trying to flirt and get her away from her guy, shell get scared.

Well actually whats up kind of works. its casual, yet it shows you have interest in them. You dont want to try to be flirty, sometimes it comes off wrong. If youre good at just being flirty then great, but if you have to thnk of lines then it comes off as youre trying to hard. Be more casual about it. Thats what the looks are for.

Yeah just give it time, if its meant to be it will happen. Ive always believed in the idea of beings friends before going out. Because then you know everything you really need to know about the person. And when the time is right ask her out in a simple way, maybe start with going to drink coffee or out to eat and then if theres chemistry great!

Yeah just dont flirt. Flirting is the most annoying thing for the girl in this kind of situation. Because she will fill like you dont respect her at all and her boyfriend and shell rule you out. Stay her friend, keep it close but yeah keep your options open. Listen to her problems, listen to her if she comes to you. Maybe shell realize that having a guy near by is better than the one so far away right?

If they are making eye contact, you also make eye contact, then turn away slowly, if they are still looking after that you should try to approach them and ask about something simple, but dont mention the flirting, just act casual. Sometimes just smiling and keeping eye contact shows interest, they may come to you first if your good at it.

I would just tell him that the topic is just too hard to talk about. That if he wants to help he should distract you from the topic all together. You dont want to shun him out, it seems he cares, but you should make him understand, apparently shut up is too indirect. So say something really wordy and maybe hell get distracted or confused.

Well in break ups friends tend to, although sometimes they dont intend to, pick sides. Its easier for them to cope and it helps the person they picked feel better. Maybe they believe your stronger so they stick to your ex. However if you are really depressed about it, I would talk to your friends. But hey its not bad they are talking to your ex, at least they are not making them feel like your feeling right now right? is not fair for either of you. you should make peace with your ex and your fri…

ok I think we all agree, now, and I mean now, call this girl and ask her out man! You need to settle this once and for all dude!

Ok well I have a friend that is sort of going through the same thing. shes been with her guy for almost a year. and its not really working because of the long distance. And she really likes the guy back home because hes there to be with her. However she stays away because she doesnt want to cheat. But it hits her really hard because as time goes by long distance can become really hard. So it all depends how strong your relationship is and how willing you are to make sacrifices. If you want to be…