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I see, well I'm glad that they didn't flip a shit on you, that would help you so much. I know it all sucks, trust me, but life always takes it's turns. It wont stay how it is forever, it gets better. I didn't believe it a year ago, but i do now, and it does it for everyone, life is always changing and so are you. It's never too late to break those chains and change yourself. If you ever need to talk, or just want to, PM me.

First of all, music helps everything. Listen to the uplifting stuff…. Maybe The Great Escape by Boys Like Girls, good and good for you. The way to go for you is to think positive, you will get into your college, you have all the chances in the world you need to retake your SAT, to get the score you want. You’re obviously smart, brilliant if you can make 100’s in a college course in high school, I cant do that, too much work… some people just don’t test well, stress builds up, and you break down……

there you go... And for the grades and attention thing, I dont have much to say, all you can do is try, and 5 or so friends, especially good friends, is more than I have, but it's ok, cus you don't really need alot of friends. Just a few close ones, and you have that going for you.... Btw, in the hug thing, just pretend that the pink one is also blue, and thats a head lock. latada, latadee, more inspirational bs... And were off... But what I said is true, a few close friends are worth more than…

Hmm... Well unfortunately for me, my parents knew as soon as I started, but I continued anyway... They were hurt and disappointed and mad because they didn't understand at all why I was doing it. they tried to force me to stop... Really it all would have turned out better for me if they reacted well, or didn't know cus it only caused more problems, but it's defenitally a good thing that they know. Not having to hide it from them as much, and not having to hide the scars months later, well I thin…

this probably wont make you feel any better, but you're in college, she knew what she was doing when she got drunk and chose to do it, she didnt get taken advantage of, if she didn't want to to that then she shouldn't have put herself in that position. and why do you feel like you did this to her? you didnt cheat on her, and i know that it's hard to not do when you're being offered it, but she did, she went out and offered herself, you're not the one you should be disappointed with at all. you m…

Quote from The Sorrow: “OKAY 1) get a new life 2) stop cutting, cut somthing else (inanimate preferd) 3) get new friends or lose em all together 4) life is always worth living. no matter what is going on, just the pure fact that Quote from The Sorrow: “OKAY hmmm..... psychotic much? just saying when someone has no friends, gets a new life and starts cutting things it doesnt look good:rolleyes:... but i have to say i agree with the advise, just pointing that out” ”

so... if i'm understanding this, you've already hooked up with them but you only want to fuck them? the conversation goes along these lines then... girl; "hey you? yes you, you're pretty damn good at rocking the boat, but you're annoying as fuck" boy; "gksdkndksfnkf" girl; "just shut up. i want to make a deal, you can have all the sex you want, just dont talk, dont call me, dont look at me in public, and dont breath on/anywhere near me." boy; "but dadjkkdcvsdcc" girl; "yes, i have a vagina, so i…

well, lets see what we can do for you shall we? number one, dont go and start spewing your feelings to her, no offence, but this is not a good option. you need to really be her friend, the fact that she talks to you and about you is a good thing of course, but you need to get in there. the closer friends you are with her the better. flurting; now just going and flurting with a girl is always hard to do for most people, and can be seen as very obtrusive sometimes, especially if its unwanted. my s…

Quote from Baal: “I mean, that's a good idea to keep you away from sharp objects for a bit longer, but it doesn't really improve your life/situation. lol.” no, but it can change the way you look at your life. it doesn't just make you happy and feel less shitty, if you can find all the good things and not care about the bad, then it's not just a short fix, you can change your outlook without changing your life. maybe not by much, but enough to not kill yourself. i believe i've said this once or t…

Quote from LoveXx: “Take his head and shove it down there. Some men like to be controlled” lol, what if the roles were switched and it was the guy, would that advise still count?:P

Quote from Kevmo7: “yeah you really dont want to be thinking about what could have been, trust me” amen to that:nono:

besides waiting.... you can just try to ignite that spark, show him how much better you are than her and be there for him when he has problems with her. just be a really good friend and make him feel how you feel for him

i agree with the above comment... but, if its wierd for you and out of your comfort zone, dont do it. i mean that mostly sexually. being out of your comfort zone is good, especially for someone with your history, it lets you open up, but make sure he knows when u don't want to do something or are uncomfortable. and the pushy part is mostly in the way he went about asking and such. i can't really give detail without the details myself, so PM me if you're curious

find a goal, something you actually enjoy doing or want to do. or find something to really live for, weather thats religion or a career or a person you care for or just a hobie. find just one thing and enjoy it and then so much else will open up for you later. more things, more people, anything. the challenges in life are always hard, you just have to have a reason to face them with your head held high and hit them right back in the face. once you have that one thing, the rest will become much c…

2 words.... uuuuuuuummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.......... wow

define hug... when me and my neighbor are half drunk and spend an hour before we fall asleep "hugging" and just laying on eachother then usually, but if im just hugging my gf in school or something then no until she gropes me

Myabe the two of you should be more than friends. I mean, i've always thought that your bf/gf should turn into your best friend who you can talk to about anything. Thats pretty much what theyre supposed to be, but closer. You two are already half way there. And sex doesn't have to ruin anything, or even make it wierd if you dont let it, but it may set expectations for the future. Either way, i don't see a problem with it, and even though its mostly guys on here saying go ahead and do it, and I'm…

here's what i know from experience, you may feel like shit now, and you may for a while, but osmetime in ur life, things will pick back up for you, soon it sounds from what i've read, but you'll be happy, and you may want it all to end now, i know i did, but a year or so down the road, you'll be happy to be alive, there's so much you would miss out on, and this crap can't last forever, there are still years of experiences and adventures that you would miss out on and never even know about. life …

Quote from Alexia: “A mind that doesn't know how to cope is weak.” so you're saying that everyone who uses cutting as a coping mechanism has a weak mind? define weak for me please, is that just under developed, is it unintelligent, what exactly do you mean by that?

im with angelbee here, friends are hard to find, but once you have some its really wonderful, it makes your life so much better having someone to talk to. just find people who are somewhat like you, or even one person and talk, you'll be more open to finding more freinds after you get some. one good friend can make everything better