To make a long story short without going into a lot of detail...

My boyfriend Kevin is very upset because his older brother wants to move back to The States after X-mas, and won't be there to see our baby when it's born.

Kevin isn't close with any of his family. His brother is really all he has when it comes to family, and he is currently living with him. That means, Kevin will also be somewhat homeless if his brother moves.

I don't really know how to help him and Kevin doesn't know how to convince his brother to stay for him, and the birth of our baby, because obviously it's a really important event and as I said before his brother is all he has.

Kev doesn't want to live on the streets or in a shelter cause he's been in that situation more than once...

I guess I just needed to vent. But if you have any advice what so ever, that would be great too.

Al x

cant he move in with you?

No, my parents hate him, because he got me pregnant and i'm only 15, so there's no way they'll allow him to stay with me unfortuantly.

Al x

Well if he has a good job and stuff, why don't you move out and move in together?

He has a job but it doesn't pay much...and my parents wouldn't allow it by any means. I'm under their roof, therefore I have to follow their rules somewhat...

Al x

does his bro know his current situation

You both should have figured that out before you had sex and got you pregnant.
An abortion would be a good idea. You're not old enough to raise a child.

Yes he does. His brother is moving country for personal reasons and wants to make a ''fresh start''. It's a really complicated story, so I won't get into it.



Firstly, We didn't know his brother was going to be moving away when I got pregnant. We've deicded to keep the baby, and I don't mean any offense by saying this, but who are you to say that i'm not old enough to raise a child?

The issue here is that my boyfriend might be homeless...and I don't want a homeless boyfriend and I don't think our child would want a homeless dad either...

I feel really down about all this

Al x

maybe you guys should talk to a teen pregnancy counsellor and see if there is anything you can do and if they can help you at all. try a free clinic maybe?

Hheart, from what I've gathered from talking to Al via MSN, they already are getting councilling, but it's not very successful.

Al, as I've already said to you, it's just a matter of persuasion with your parents. You need to make them know that you're not giving up this baby, because you don't feel right about it.

Shotgun.

I'm going to keep this baby no matter what. The bigger issue is Kevin being homeless and him having no-where to stay, and somehow we both can't come up with ideas for places he could stay...it just sucks really badly.

He has no family he can stay with beisdes his brother who's moving. His friends are too young to let him stay with them and the people Kevin knows who are older are the sort of people you wouldn't normally hang around with, the rough crowed. We're just all out of ideas...

Al x

Maybe get better jobs and get your own place,
Your parenst say that when you're under THEIR roof you follow their rules, but as soon as you move out, you're not under THEIR roof specifically, so you're free Problem solved. But yeah, if your parents won't let the FATHER(not the boyfriend anymore, he's the FATHER) live witht you for at least a little while, during his time of need, then maybe they're not the kind of parents that you should be stickin around.
Ok, so he got you pregnant, now what, what're the parents gonna do, sue him? they can't.

leh, point f this very confusing rant is... It doesn't matter if he got you pregnant or not, the Parents should at least respect the fact that he has nowhere else to go, even if for one day, that's one more day off teh streets, one more day from starvation, one more day from...(insert reason here.)

hey DER MIJA WELL MAYBE I CAN HELP U I MEAN I BEEN THREW DA SAME SHIT WIT HAVIN MY MAN BE HOMELESS N IT SUCKS SO BAD I MEAN I MEMBER DA DAYS WHEN HE WUD CALL SAYIN BABY I GOT TO GO I NEED TO FIND A PLACE TO SLEEP. JUST HANG IN THERE N BE THERE FOR HIM LIKE NO OTHER. HAS HE FINISHED SKOOL OR ANYTHING? WELL WRITE BACK K

Someone should have told you boyfriend what people told me.

"don't be a fool, wrap your tool"

haha