I am a Senior in highschool, for some reason i think i need "love"... I want a girl in my life, and i feel crazy for that. When i see other guys with there girl, they dont really seem to care.

For some reason, What ever reason. I care. It bugs me in my mind everyday, i havent made that "connection" with someone. I cant understand these highschool chicks man, do they want to just fuck? One night stands? A real realtionship?

Girls tell me im a really good looking guy, and i try my best to be nice and treat people right. But its hard, i just wonder why no girls have tried really hard to get to know me, or love me.

Do i have to do all the work and talk to millions of girls? just randomly? i have before.. It just feels like im desperate, trying to meet so many people.

I know i sound pathetic...

Rk

man ive been through that!!
I'm also a senior in highschool and i guess when i do cut my hair girls pay attention to me...ANYway about YOU

In my opinion you my friend need to think OUTSIDE the box..keep in mind this is my opinion you don't have to go with it if you don't like it the're are other methods

You need to think "I Don't need "love" because theres lots of other ways to go about feeling good or whatever..If You REALLY want girls that bad, id say go to a highschool party..People are more friendly at parties..partially because of the influence of alchool too and whatever other drug

My advice to you is to try and put yourself out there..I myself am too shy to do something like that but ive seen this happen...go to dances maybe some places where there is SOCIALIZING going on with an abundance of the female species of courselol And your definately to find a girl you hook up with..Or an alternative Go around with a sign above you that says FREE BOYFRIEND....LoL just kidding
Hope this post is of use to you hope all goes well

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I feel exactly the same way. 18 & never experienced love and i get depressed about it... if i new the answer to that problem i wouldn't be here.

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"I spent 90% of my money on women & booze... the rest i wasted" ~ George Best

That's cause if a girl likes a guy, she normally want them to make the first move.
I bet tons of girls have had secret crushes on you, and you don't even know
But high school relationships don't last long anyways, so don't worry.
There is an answer, it's called friends. You can't have a girlfriend who is not your friend, so therefore friends who you're not dating are the next best thing XD

Doesnt help if you have no girl-friends

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"I spent 90% of my money on women & booze... the rest i wasted" ~ George Best

So there is noone specific? Wanting someone beside you and not knowing whom exactly isn't going to result positively. Seemingly, you just want someone's presence, anyone's presence. But if you rush because you need any company, it won't be worth in the least.

No. That mainly brings about relation that is based on social standards and popularity labels.

Which is exactly the point I wanted to being with. When you choose friends, you don't look who is male and who female. That is a mistake of yours, and almost entire teenage society; all of you avoid having friends of the opposite sex because you see them as potential love companions which naturally leads to embarrassment. That is a crucial barrier - You, and your criteria for friendship doesn't allow any girl to become your true friend. How will she possibly fall in love with you if she doesn't know your nature? Or should one deem an appearance as a sole factor?

To conclude, love is a fusion of similar interests. Once you find someone that has the same apprehension and pursuits like you, approach slowly in order to gain a friend, not a girlfriend. Your heart will tell you the rest.

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