Here's the story:

Well see I tell my mom everything, and I mean EVERYTHING. My last boyfriend I did everything with and my mom knew, but she had me promise not to have sex till we were together for a whole year. But at 5 months we decided to have sex, and then 2 months later we weren't getting along and I broke up with him.
It just eats me up inside when my om says "I'm so glad you didnt have sex." But really I did, and I just cant tell her cause she will kill me, so will my father.
I just want to know how I can get this guilty feeling off my mind, or if there is any way of telling her.
I regret even having sex because the way he winded up treated me once we weren't friends, and now that were not even talking he says stuf about me.
I just dont know what to do.

Please some advice.
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So you don't want people to reply in here?

really it doesnt matter

what's done is done, you can't change that.
you just have to decide whether or not you can live with not telling your mum.
if you tell her, she'll probably talk to you and understand and help you feel better about the situation.
no doubt, the way she talks about it brings your down in a way of feeling 'she was right. i should've listened'.

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Ok well i think you shouldn't have to tell your mum everythign you do, but if you like doing that and you'd prfer to do that then it's your choice.

If it's a burden on your mind but you can't tell her maybe write a letter that usually helps or just tell her straight out, she'll be thankful you told her rather than keep it to yourself (if you discuss everything else with her) also telling her you regret it, will show you won't rush into anything again so soon. She might be a little disappointed in you, but thats what you have to face, tell her or don't tell her, your choice.

dont tell her. why does she needs to know?

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now thats a situation

you should tell her if you feel that guilty about it.. shes your mother, she'll love you no matter what..even if she is disappointed in you. and you seem to have an open and honest relationship so she should be happy that you can trust her enough to tell her.. and even if she gets mad..she'll get over it

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Dont tell your mum, its gunna cause you more problems then before.

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G'day.

If you feel really guilty and get the feeling that your gonna puke when ever she says that, i thikn you should sit her down and start with look mom..and then just go from there. Tell her you made a mistake and didnt realize what you were doing because it felt right at the moment.
If you don't feel all that bad then i suggest you dont tell her. Personally i wuoldn't tell my mom...but thats all up to you

I just wouldn't tell her.
There's some things a parent doesn't need to know

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Just tell her. She knows 'EVERYTHING' already, right?

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I'm back bitches.

Don't tell her.

If you really want to tell her, wait till you're married.

My sister is 27, and all the time she used to be like "Hey mom, you remember that one time when I was like 16 that I said that never happened... well it did."

They would just sit there and laugh about it because it was so far in the past.

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Tell me, tell me, can you feel the pressure now?

I agree.

Why does she need to know ? She's not your friend.

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