It's not Fair.

Angelica · 05-12-2008, 08:46 AM

I've managed to get a job, and i've been workign there for 2 months.
I was coz i finally got some independance, from my sister.
And just because she hasn't been able to get a job, she's gone for a job at the bakery that i work at, behind my back...
it's not fair, she always has to have the same as me.
My friend agree's, that it's a sibbling thing, but My Mum and Sister, when i confronted them, they don't get it, and they think it's just me.
I tell my sister, how would you like it, if i worked at the same place...your the one always talking about independance. But they say that i'm selfish or whatever. Is there somethign wrong with not wanting to be with my sister all the bloody time??
There are plenty of places where she can get a job.
She even copied MY resume, that i worked on for ages, to get right so a potential employer would destinguish it from the others, and she edited her details into it!
She never does the work. I'm soo sick of it! And if she gets the job, i'll be a laughing stock, with my friends because were always together.
Why can't she respect that??
I'm thinking if she gets the job i'll quit, but why should i?
Why can't she just leave me alone!!!

Plink · 05-12-2008, 09:18 AM

I don't think you will really get along with your sibling until you guys get older and move out. It's not a big deal just shrug it off.

If you quit your only proving that you are the weaker one of the two. Try not to let it get to you.

Leyenda. · 05-12-2008, 03:29 PM

My little brothers the same with me, he steals my clothes, trys to talk to my friends. In a way he trys to be me but it's only because i'm his older brother and he looks up too me. My mother says i'm his role model, so I respect that and just allow it.

As he gets older he will grow out of it and he will then find out who he is and then hopefully he will develop his own personality and style. The same will happen with you and your sister but in the mean time theres not a lot you can do about it because it used to annoy me at first about my brother but you get used to it, well I did anyway.

Angelica · 05-12-2008, 03:53 PM

yeh but i'm not exactly, the role model for my sister. She's older than me, but she didn't have much sucess as me, in gettign a job. Partly because i spent more time perfecting my resume, and i kept putting my resume's out.
I'm just annoyed that i can't have some originality out of some things. Apparently she only put it in because our mum kept at her, and she did it to just shut her up. Is it wrong if i hope she doesn't get the job, even if their not recruiting. It's still the fact that her resume is in there, as a potential.

Leyenda. · 05-12-2008, 03:59 PM

I understand what your saying but maybe she is jealouis of you? because you are successful and she is not? I know it's hard to get your own uniqueness when you have a sister or brother of the same sex exspecialy when they are the same age group as you. Why did your mother want your sister to work at the same place as you?

#Leyenda.

Angelica · 05-13-2008, 04:09 PM

well i don't think she actually thinks of it that way. My sisters been looking for a job for over a year, and i wasn't actually mean't to get a job before her, but it's manly because of my resume, and the effort. my sister just puts in the occasional wave of resumes. With me i didn't take no for an answer.
When i tell my mum, my feelings she rekon's i'm being pathetic and selfish, and that anything that get's my sister money.
She says she understands stuff, but she's not the typical modern mum. She was our age once, but that was too long ago, and in these days, but teenagers go through are quite different from the 60's.

bryan222 · 05-16-2008, 12:42 AM

Yes, I personally believe that you are right. I will pray to god that you get what you want.
God bless you!

Leyenda. · 05-16-2008, 05:51 PM

You think who is right? is it just me or is this guy making posts with no sense to them?

#Leyenda.