Although clanzmen's first sentence bullshit, i do think hes right with the 2nd, your hormones have control over you at the moment and what you think now, may not be the same as what you think in a few years when your hormones have died down and your left looking a fool/attention seeker...

so i'd wait till your 16/18 and then if you still feel the same way, then go for it and goodluck.

i know your just trying to give advice but i know im bi

Heyy Jack, Im also bi, I did'nt exactly come out to my friends but someone overheard a conversation I was having with my best friend and told the whole school, I mean yeah I had a hard time for a while but after some time most people accepted it and treated me the same as before but some were still complete arse holes and I didnt really care.

Im 17 now and I havent said anything to my friends in college but they dont really need to know, just wait for a bit if i was you, I wouldnt tell your parents for a bit to be honest.

Hope This Helps,

Regards,
Chris

thanks as in they gave you a bad time what did they do?

I thought I was bi when i was about 14 but about a year ago the feelings just faded, now i have no interest in guys at all.

I'm not saying that you are just going through a phase, but its something you should consider, as if you come out to everyone and then feel differently later. The tag will sit with you.

Richiix

First off..starting with your family. If your family really loved you they wouldn't just up and leave you and never talk to you again! I mean if they do...that's just plain dumb! Seriously! And your 14 saying your bi. Uhm, i don't know i wouldn't tell my parents/family I'm bi just yet. Your young...just wait it out!

I think everyone is bi to an extent. People that get all uptight can, quite frankly, go suck a dick. They are all,"You're going to hell!!" Why do they give a shit? I'ts none of their buisness how other people live life.

What to do? If I suggest anything, I'll screw you. But I am on your side.

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I think you should keep it a secret from your parents for now. But you should tell your friends, at least the ones you trust. Personally i see nothing wrong with bisexuals. My mom thinks bisexuals are confused, but i belive that for you both sexes have different qualities that you crave, or love. like most not all women have that " discuss your feelings" kind of qulities. Most guys not all have that roughess to them. Go and be you if you need someone to talk to im here for ya. Take care.

How do you know its just a phase dude how do you really know your bi?

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wait till your comfortable.

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OMFG
Im 13 bi-sex and no one knows..
Im going though the same thing

Other then the fact that im going though the same thing.. I have came out to a teacher who told the school soical workers and i told my best friend.
The only thing is that i really fucked up on is that i told a guy that i like him and he was in my class so not i regret it.. He told all his friends and not im getting bullied..
But i hope im old news when i get back to school..

I know its hard, But we have to keep on going..wait untill your you feel like you want to and feel comfortable.
I hope we can help each other out..I'll friend you..

To be honest, I'd wait a little while longer before telling your parents. Maybe discuss bisexuality hypathetically with them so as to test the waters and help you predict their reaction.

As for the friends, only confide in those you really trust. And even then, try not to bring it up as you don't wanna look like a big attention seeker.

Good luck!

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Thaks for your help.

Like some people've said, just go on and tell your closest friends. I'm bi as well, and it took me forever to get up the nerve to tell my two best friends. When I did, though, one of them said she had thought for a long time that I was and was really glad that I got up the nerve to tell her, and the other (who is homophobic, no joke) said she didn't approve but she loved me too much to care. A while after that, I didn't go around telling people, but I didn't deny it if they asked, and now I'm pretty sure most people I'm friends with at all know. I don't directly tell anybody, though.

I told my mum by accident shortly after I started dating my girlfriend (whom I have been dating for almost 11 months). I'm still not exactly sure what she thinks of it, to be honest.

But I guess just go for it or don't, depending on how you think people will react.

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