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Old 06-17-2008, 12:43 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Never thought being made fun of would hurt this much

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Ok, so I'll just make up names as I go along here. I'm Triss, I'm 16 and I have been in a relationship with Layla for 3 years. Layla is 4 months younger than me, the prettiest girl I've ever seen, and my sister.
I'll give you a minute to digest that last part. Done?
So there are some people are age that found out out about two weeks ago, and have been harassing us ever since. Like, verbal and physical abuse, a fight between me and them now and then when they try to hurt her. I just don't know what to do besides giving them all a hell of pain. I don't want to get adults involved because adults talk and it'll make its way back to our parents and they'll seperate us, and thats the last thing I want. Any advice at all?
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Old 06-17-2008, 02:17 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Never thought being made fun of would hurt this much

She's not your biological sister, so I would probably just suggest you ignore it. If it gets violent, contact the police. There really is no way to keep adults out of it.
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actually you don't have to call the cops depending on how violent it is. if theres no knives or guns involved, then you could just fight them. make sure you only fight in self defense though if they attack you or ur sister.

Basically ignore everything they say to you. Just walk away and ignore them. And if they touch you or her then redefine their faces. simple as that
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Ermm sorry a little misunderstanding here you say your in a relationship with your sister? Im sorry but thats completly messed up i dont think you should carry on this way seriosuly man errrm i dunno what to say
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I'm assuming you've got different mothers, seeing as there's only 4 months between you?
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Old 06-17-2008, 09:38 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Ermm sorry a little misunderstanding here you say your in a relationship with your sister? Im sorry but thats completly messed up i dont think you should carry on this way seriosuly man errrm i dunno what to say
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I'm assuming you've got different mothers, seeing as there's only 4 months between you?
Yeah, see it's complicated. As its been told to me, dad slept with moms sister when she was with me, then after she had me she left since it looked like they were gonna stay together anyway. He says she never could think straight. So my aunt is my mom and my cousin is my sister/girl friend
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damn man must be hard. Don't beat them up though. Really people used to pick on and my mates and once i beat this guy up got suspended from school for 3 weeks
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damn man must be hard. Don't beat them up though. Really people used to pick on and my mates and once i beat this guy up got suspended from school for 3 weeks
Well we're not in school for summer :P

I must say, this site is way better than a certain other, where I got insulted because of this by a mod
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This is a place for advice to be given. We're meant to try and empathise with you not insult you. !
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Well we're not in school for summer :P

I must say, this site is way better than a certain other, where I got insulted because of this by a mod
you should have reported him and got his modship disbanded. I originally thought it distateful you were out with your sister, but a step sister I don't mind. and the fact you were together before your parents got together makes it perfectly acceptable in my eyes and all those that would oppose need to wake up.

hell, if my online bf kyle and me got together and our parents married, I wouldn't stop being with kyle just because by law he was now my step-brother, hell no. so I wont condemn you for it.

now for the advice, dont ignore it. I have spent my life getting picked on for being what I am. I know what your on about and it does hurt. it hurts emotionallly like a bitch and you'd rather go completely ignored and invisible through the school than anything else. Now. heres what you do...stand up.

beat them up, shout at them, whatever you do, show no fear. show courage and let them know that you will not stand by and let them do this to you.

I did that...after about half a year of doing so, getting beaten up constantly but fighting back, even though I always lost, they stopped.

It worked for me and it is my advice to you. if it works, then good, but if it doesn't. do not hold me accountable as it is only advice and the choice to take it is yours alone.
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I am grateful.. Thank you for any advice thus far
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I agree with everything Cirrax said. Don't take their crap. They have no right to touch either your or your sister.
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you should have reported him and got his modship disbanded. I originally thought it distateful you were out with your sister, but a step sister I don't mind. and the fact you were together before your parents got together makes it perfectly acceptable in my eyes and all those that would oppose need to wake up.

hell, if my online bf kyle and me got together and our parents married, I wouldn't stop being with kyle just because by law he was now my step-brother, hell no. so I wont condemn you for it.

now for the advice, dont ignore it. I have spent my life getting picked on for being what I am. I know what your on about and it does hurt. it hurts emotionallly like a bitch and you'd rather go completely ignored and invisible through the school than anything else. Now. heres what you do...stand up.

beat them up, shout at them, whatever you do, show no fear. show courage and let them know that you will not stand by and let them do this to you.

I did that...after about half a year of doing so, getting beaten up constantly but fighting back, even though I always lost, they stopped.

It worked for me and it is my advice to you. if it works, then good, but if it doesn't. do not hold me accountable as it is only advice and the choice to take it is yours alone.
Well she's my half sister, but still ^_^ I'm going to be seeing them tonight, I'll let you all know what/if anything happens
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Its your life, so do what you feel makes you happy!
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Can't you just avoid them? Your not in school. I never see people I don't like when school is not in. I'm a bit confused about that option not being tried.
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