im having sex with a 29 year old i work with.
im sixteen.


in the state im in, its not illegal.
but in the back of my mind i know its wrong.

idk..the fact that its so wrong excites me beyond comprehension.
he always undresses me with his eyes at work and grabs my ass when no one is looking.

and i absolutely LOVE it.
but i feel horrible about myself at the same time..


plus we arent using protection and if i get pregnant,it will be a 29 year olds baby

i should have stopped while i was ahead.
but its so hard. hearing people at work talk about how if we werent so different in age, wed be great together.
and seeing him look at other girls, knowing hes fucking other girls.

ive become so posessive and psycho about him
what do i do?
im actually breaking my own rules and falling for this guy.
it gets worse every. single. day.

oh and did i mention hes married?

Subjective.

Is he willing to be responsible for that?

Why sex though? Why not just flash each other all day. No need for ejaculation.

Ooh. Can you find out his wife's e-mail address? Maybe she can straighten him out.

Remember, if he abuses you, or does not take no for an answer, the law is most certainly on your side (especially considering he's married).

Why not make a no ejaculation policy?

Neal C.

yeah youre right.

to stop or to continue though is still the question

Well, I think the biggest issue is pregnancy. You obviously wouldn't want to get an abortion.

And if you do get pregnant, your parents will want to find out who he is, and when that happens, they'll press charges I assume?

You mentioned you aren't using protection. I wonder if you'd consider using condoms.

A condom policy, a no-ejaculation policy, etc. What's wrong with going in the closet and just flashing each other? No vaginal penetration is necessary.

I'd definitely stop. The guy is married for God's sake.

Um I'm sorry but it's absolutely disgusting that you're fucking a married man. What is wrong with you?!