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07-01-2008, 08:02 PM
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Is it ok to feel this way?
I need a guys and a girls opinion. Two years ago my friends noticed before i did that i was interested in white guys, and paid more attention to them then the black guys when we are at the mall or smtg. I tried to tell myself that it was a phase, that i will get over it. But i haven't, it's not like i will never date black guys again, i just find white guys more attractive. I don't know why i feel this way, i just do. I told my mom and dad, they are ok with it. Sometimes i try to make myself like black guys more but i can't. No its not because i had a bad experience from a black guy. I've had good and bad experiences with both races. Now i prefer whites over any other race. My other friend feels the same. I also have a friend who prefers asians. My question, is it horrible to feel this way? is smtg wrong with me?
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07-01-2008, 09:09 PM
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Re: Is it ok to feel this way?
It is definitely not wrong to feel that way. That is just your individual taste at the moment.
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07-01-2008, 10:14 PM
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Re: Is it ok to feel this way?
Yeah, there's nothing wrong with liking people in different colors :]
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07-02-2008, 11:52 PM
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Re: Is it ok to feel this way?
It's fine to feel like that. Being physically attracted to only one race is as racist as being exclusively hetrosexual is sexist, i.e. it's not. You can't help who you're attracted to.
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07-02-2008, 11:55 PM
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Re: Is it ok to feel this way?
Oh boy...I have the same problem
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07-03-2008, 08:02 AM
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Re: Is it ok to feel this way?
There's nothing wrong with it!
To be honest, I think I'm the same xD
Whatever you do though, don't try and force yourself to like anyone, that's pointless. You like who you like, end of.
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07-06-2008, 05:43 AM
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Re: Is it ok to feel this way?
damn... that hurts hahaha. thats cool u like wat u like, but dont forget about us bruthas out their!!
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07-06-2008, 07:12 AM
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Re: Is it ok to feel this way?
I have to say that it's your personal taste, and there's nothing wrong with it. You can't really help who you're attracted to, and that's fine - there's nothing wrong with interracial dating, so you shouldn't feel that you need to force yourself to date among the same race.
It's fine, yeah some people don't accept them, but who cares what they think? If it's okay with you, your parents don't care tell them they can kiss your ass really. There's nothing wrong with it, you like who you like.
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07-06-2008, 09:22 AM
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Re: Is it ok to feel this way?
Date who you like. We all do. There are so many different things that each of us likes about other people. Go for love!
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07-06-2008, 12:22 PM
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Re: Is it ok to feel this way?
its perfectly okay to like guys of different races 
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07-06-2008, 03:14 PM
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Re: Is it ok to feel this way?
Now here's something else... Am I considered racist if I don't find -most- other races girls not attractive? >>;
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07-06-2008, 06:34 PM
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Re: Is it ok to feel this way?
Nah, but I totally agree with you.
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07-06-2008, 09:11 PM
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Re: Is it ok to feel this way?
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Now here's something else... Am I considered racist if I don't find -most- other races girls not attractive? >>;
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No, not really. It's pretty much the same, whatever your taste is. You're only racist, well, if you're racist.
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07-06-2008, 09:22 PM
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Re: Is it ok to feel this way?
your not racist dw hun x
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07-07-2008, 01:37 AM
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