Honestly, I think it's too hard to keep up with today's modern life. I'm so confused. What am I supposed to do with myself?

I'm 14, 15 in August and I.. don't know what I'm supposed to do. I live in America, where people judge you to no extent.

Really, everybody now is talking about how they masturbate so much, and have sex and drink and get drunk and everything everyday. I've never even had a boyfriend. Does this make me a loser?

I have a 4.0 GPA just for my freshman year, and I'm pretty much just an athletic girl. What else am I supposed to do?

Am I supposed to be masturbating already? That just seems terribly weird.

Also, why do people shave their pubic areas? Is it just to have better sex or something? It doesn't bother me at all. I don't get it.

I honestly don't care about what other people think of me, especially these kinds of things. But I don't want to go out and take a survey or anything of what other people do. I'm just so curious and lost.

Help? I don't know what anyone is supposed to say to respond to this topic but.. yeah. Maybe I just wanted to post this so I could rant about stuff. I don't know why I'm posting this anymore...

Well it's the same here, they talk about where they got drunk and stuff like that.

No it doesn't make you a loser. =)

Yeah, maybe, I don't know, I think it's just a trend to shave the pubes. =)

lol welcome to the party Im sure youll find alot of people in the same boat just live your life and forget about there stuff like you said dont give a shit about what others think.

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Sure?That's probably the stupidest question I've ever heard, to be honest.Problem #1: Lack of maturity regarding sex.Hair = annoying and unattractive.
Problem #2: Denial.

If you feel "lost" and you're asking if something makes you a loser, obviously you do. And it's pretty apparent that you think about this a lot - what else you should do, that is. "Should" according to whom? Others, of course. So you're wondering what others think you should do.

~Maggot

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So you're a 4.0 girl and you hang out with the drinkers, druggers, and masterbaters?

That, right there, explains it.

Hang out with the intellectuals. With other 4.0 girls. With other virgin girls.

Though, if you do want to "fit in" with the 2.0 girls and boys and the C, D, and F students, well, 1st you could reconsider, and yes, that would require you a slight change of personality.

But hey, you never know if some idiot needs help with their homework. ;]

=P i think just like you..

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'Kay.

Are you a woman?

I'll post as a whore next time so I feel mature.

"It doesn't bother me." Okey, I'll shave it so guys who look at that area will find it attractive? Or maybe it's for myself, I want my vagina to look pretty.

Cause you know me so well. <3

I'm curious as to what other people think I am supposed to be doing. Not that I'll follow through with what anyone says. Yes, I do think about this a lot, but that doesn't mean I honestly care. Curiosity, my friend.

No. >_<
Not all of my friends do these things. As I said before, I really don't know what I'm posting.

Ew, no. I don't need to fit in with those guys. That's completely not what I'm trying to do. I don't want to change my personality, I don't want new friends.

I hate helping people like that. If you can't get good grades in my school, you don't try at all. If they ask for help, their number 1 reason for talking to me is to copy off my work. I'm not being cocky, but that's just how it is around here. There's only two groups of people academically.


Anyway, I don't feel like posting in this topic anymore. People can post or whatever, but yeah. Ciao guys~ And thanks for the responses. :D

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...No, no, I'm not.What? XD

1) The fact that you find masturbating weird is what I was referring to (or, at least, that was the impression you gave).
2) I'm not sure where the whore thing came from - it really doesn't make any sense, even used sarcastically. Unless you're saying that masturbating at your age would make you a whore? But that doesn't make sense, since I made no implication you should be masturbating, only that you shouldn't find it weird. So, taking sarcasm into account, you're saying that being okay with masturbation would make you a whore? ... Yeah, sorry, you lost me.
You asked why people do it, and I answered. I never said it should be your reason. You're one of those people who's very fond of strawmen, eh?
I just explained it for you. <3There's a difference between curiosity and thinking about it so much that it causes negative feelings. You said so yourself maybe you posted it just to "rant." Please don't make me pull up the definitions of "rant." It's not a word that implies or suggests a lack of emotion.

~Maggot

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you are completly right about that and no you don't have to drink and have sex and things of that nature any time soon. It is illeagle for one thing and not doing these things does not make you a bad person.

Yay to being a virgin! I'm as straight-edge as they come. I don't drink, do drugs, have sex, go to parties, um...and I don't really masturbate as well. Even though everyone else around me is doing that, I rather do stuff my way. I rarely listen to what everyone think the "norm" is.

So, don't be confused. Be perfectly happy that you're not alike as those people. Be happy that you're an individual.

And kudos for having straight A's.

That's amazing. I got one 4.0 my freshman year and that's probably the happiest I got :] Now, I'm just a straight 3.83 kinda girl.

Best of luck to you.

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