So I'm not going to lie. I'm lost, I've done everything wrong, and now I don't feel close to anyone.

I want to start over, but I'll make the same mistakes, so I want you guys to decide everything. I mean, I want you to take over my life. I don't want to be lonely, i want to find someone I like, and I think that this community would be able to help. Re-build me stronger, faster, smarter.

I want to be the 6 billion dollar man, but i need your help.

Looks: Black, 6', fairly muscular (works out a lot). I'm attractive I've heard.
Personality: I'm funny, cynical, and i want to change the world. I'm not that confident, but I'm smart and i never give up.
Interests: Martial arts, writing/reading stories and poetry, playing and composing piano and guitar.

I lost most of my friends by losing one girl. I'll continue to explain my situation, but for now you guys can design my life and tell me what to do and how to be. I'd love to see a change, so don't feel bad about tweaking anything.

The best advice I can give mate is that YOU have to take control of your life.
You're strong enough to do it.

Doesn't mean we can't help though

How about explaining your problem first (what happened with this girl)

I agree with S1919. YOU have to have the confidence in yourself to make over your own world. Strangers can't do that for you.

Sometimes, you need a total change of scenery to move forward, like transferring to a different school. If you already have a reputation (good or bad), its gonna be difficult to lose that. But, it can be done.

I suggest you get yourself together, and set some goals. Look past the daily routines, and plan your future. As soon as you put your past behind you, the struggle will become less and less. Good luck man.

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Ok, basically liked her for a long time. She liked me back, I made some dumb mistakes, so did she. We never went out, but knew we were going to. You know, dates, time alone, the good stuff. She wanted to "kind of go out" until she was ready to finalize the deal, you know, but I was kind of impatient and told her that I couldn't wait forever (it had already been a year and a half) and that pissed her off to the point where she pretty much dumped me and started hanging out with different guys. We were still good friends, but it was just different. Now she's about to go out with this guy (or already is, I don't know at this point) and I feel horrible about it. I tried to ask her out for the first time seriously and she told me I had two years and it was time she tried something new. She's friends with my friends, so this entire thing is pretty much going to get around fast.

Basically, I just need to change everything. I don't want to depend on her or my friends who aren't really like me that much, but I really need help doing the whole "teenage thing". I overthink things, so having an anonymous source that would just tell me what to do would be much easier.

I can handle the little things, but I'm giving you guys the chance to control a life, for better or worse, because I really don't want to do it myself.

For example, I haven't talked to her, since our little, will you forget this guy and go out with me argument 2 days ago, should I call?

Wow buddy, chill out, you couldn't date 1 girl. Now your life has gone to the gutter? If your friends were that quickly to drop you based off the command of one bitch. Then they're tools and you should move on.

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Nah, it's not just the fact that I couldn't date one girl, it's a lot of things, and that was just the straw that broke the camel's back. I'm not looking for pity or anything like that, just a fresh start and some advice. My life isn't in the gutter, it's just the opposite of where it should be.

I'm treating you guys like I'd treat my friends when I need help, I just need to know where you think I should go from here, I'm willing to take all advice, because believe me, there's not too much to lose.

Well first things first, starting fresh means to take risks or change the environment you were in before. So, moving/changing your circle of friends is a given. Leave that comfort zone. But, this time when trying to make friends, make sure it's solely based off of u. Also try to build solo confidence, do things you normally would only do with friends around.

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Fair nough, so do I try to stay friends with this girl, or do a complete 360 and just back off?

Eh, I think you'll have more fun with a new setting . 360!

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Alright. Now i just need to find places to go and new people to chill with. I'm a really bad teen, so I have no idea where to meet people.

when you described your personality, you said you're smart and never give up. well, i don't believe you because you're giving up right now and smart people don't let others control them. also, you shouldn't think that you did everything wrong because there's moments in life that you just can't regret. there's a million girls in the world so i'm sure there's a perfect girl for you. so until you find her, enjoy life. Make real friends. Go on on a street and say hi to anyone, ignore the fact that it makes you look like a idiot. Do anything and everything you want. be stupid be crazy be funny. I don't know...do what you wanna do.

That's the whole point. I'm not giving up. I'm trying something new. I'm smart, because I'm not too conceited to admit I need help. I do need to rebuild my life, because if I keep doing things the way I have, eventually I won't have the strength to go on, and I'm gonna find myself depressed, but in the meantime, I'm asking for peoples help in changing things. Life isn't perfect at all, but I just want to make it better. I'm not letting people tell me where to step, and what exactly to do, I just know that I need advice. I don't know what to do and I need help rebuilding my life. that simple.