Eh... Hello. This is my first time posting here. I require some advice...
I'm thinking this must be the right place to ask this question...
Alright, Well, Im about to go into High School. But I feel so different from all the other kids
"yeah what else is new with kids these days?"
No, I'm DIFFERANT.
well... this is how it is. I dont relate to kids at all. I feel like I'm born in the wrong century.
I dont have very many friends, And I haven't had a boyfriend in over 2 years.
Dont get me wrong here, guys have told me they like me, and people have reached out to me, asking to be my friend. But I just cant seem open up to anyone.
I usually hang out with a bunch of girls with serious issues.
Like, one of my "friends" Justine. she was seriously depressed. always going on about how life sucked and she wanted to kill herself.
Anyways... She'd go on and on and on about how she'd lost her virginity and gave guys "b-j's" which, frankly, utterly repulsed me.
Why are all the girls these days sex crazed? they wear tops that show too much boob. And pants that are way too tight. And if you dont buy named brand crap clothes they say your on welfare and **** like that.
So, I'll be walking to the mall, and I see those same girls, smoking. lovely.
So I happen to walk closer, oh, their talking about that one time they got hammered and **** some guy named scott that's 4 years older then them. oh ho ho! cant get more normal then that, eh?
I find Alcohol bitter and disgusting.
I do not now, or will I ever, want a boys over sized appendage in my mouth.
And I find drugs a waste of money, brain cells, AND TIME.
Now, I was perfectly fine accepting all this crap into my life when, one of my only close friends told me they recently had sex with their girlfriend. Now, the dude is 17. I know, Im 14, Im friends with a 17 year old, woopdidoo. moving on...
Okay, so, when I found out he had sex with his girl friend. I didn't respond exactly how he thought I would react.
what he thought I would say: "WHOA, GOOD JOB SCORING MAN."
what I did say: "WHY YOU LOUSY PIECE OF ****!!!"
Yes, Im a great friend. I know.
Why am I so different? Am I the only kid with morals these days?
Rap music, drugs, alcohol, sex. MAKE IT STOP.
p.s. I hate labels. appearently your an emo if you wear skinny jeans and band shirts. I dislike emo music. I dont HATE emo people, I just think that its a label. I like the way I dress.
Im not an emo. Im a kid that wears clothes. The end.
Im sorry if I've seemed bitter, Im usually nice ^^
Please answer my question, Im in dire need of help to get my head thinking straight.

Am I the only kid in this world that doesn't think sex, drugs, and rap music is the right path?

err..what was the question?

and why do you hate emos? emo is simply emotive hardcore, a genre of music. hating "emos" would be hating multiple emotive hardcore music genres. odd...

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Im sorry, I didn't really mean I HATE emo's... hate is such a strong word.
Its just, in high school, theres the gangster wannabe's and emo's and goths ect ect.

I dont really like labels... and people seem to think I listen to emo music and cut my wrist and such because I dress and cut my hair like the "emo" kids.
Its a bit annoying..

Just because somebody doesn't have the same morals as you doesn't make immoral... Is there a set moral code of conduct anyways?

It's the way a lot of people live there lives, you can't really do much about it. You just have to be accepting and hope they are the same way back. I agree with you on some points but not as extreme and not all.

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this is just the way you think and how you feel. its not right or wrong. everyone is different with their own set of morals and their own way of thinking. you choose not to do drugs. thats YOUR choice, but somebody else might choose to do so. you dont have to like it but you should accept and respect other peoples' morals.

im the same as you in the sense that i dont do drugs, etc. but i also dont get angry at the people that do. its their choice. if a friend shares something with you, you should be a friend and listen to them. you dont have to agree but you should respect them.

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Wow. You're exactly like me. I agree with every little bit of what you typed.

You are the oppisite of me... cept I have like never kissed a girl.

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I saw you give birth in pain
and try to think of a name
It was me being pulled out of you for good.

Hey, not all kids these ages love sex drugs and alcohol. Well, sex and alcohol prolly, drugs a little less. It's just idiocy, peer pressure and wanting to experience something new and "better". I can tell you this now, you'll grow to be a great adult. The others, well... Not so much.
As for labels... Well, generalization and stereotypes are ways to increase confidence. You think you know someone better when you can label them and say "oh they're this and that, I know how to handle this person and whether I should befriend him", and labels relate to the generalization and stereotypes; but it's usually completely untrue. Emo is a mucis genre, the emo subculture is usually said to be people who wear skinny jeans, black/red/pink shirts and excessive makeup, and hate life, hurt themselves, want to or actually commit suicide - now that's not always true. Same goes for nerds, jocks, etc; they usually relate automatically to something else, but that's not always true. Labeling exists and you'll have to deal with it. I can suggest that you either don't label anyone or avoid the bad sides of labels.

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heh, i like that post for some reason.

there are probably lots of kids like you.
and after all..you are only 14. you have yet to enter into the world of sex yet.
one day you might understand. haha

as for the drugs and alcohol thing. LOADS of people do not like them and therefore do not drink or do drugs. but some people like to, so just deal with that.
we're all different. learn to accept people

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keep doing what you're doing, you're doing the right thing...