This may be stupid, but lately I have been very depressed because I have a big head. While some of you may say, that's ridiculous, you probably don't understand.

I didn't always know I had a big head. I just noticed a few months ago, when some kids were laughing say, "you have a big ass head". that day, I went in the mirror and looked at it from the side and realized how huge it was. From that day on, it felt like all my self-esteem was lost.

Sometimes when I talk to people, I catch them looking at my head. When I walk in the halls, my "friends" act like they don't see me. I KNOW it's because they are embarrassed to be seen walking with someone with a big head. It really sucks and makes me feel horrible, knowing it's something I can't fix.

I also feel like I will never have a girlfriend because of this. What girl would ever want some guy with a big ass head. I just feel like I can't fit in and it just isn't fair.

I'm not an asshole, I'm really nice to people and am very friendly. But I can't stand when someone I'm friends with is embarrassed to be seen with me..it makes me feel like shit.

My question is to you, would you be embarrassed to have a friend with a big head and for the girls, would you go out with a guy with a big head? Please just be honest. I need to know.

Dude, that's ridiculous.
No one cares whether you have a big head or not and for head size to determine whether a girl will date you is fucking crazy.
And no, I would not be embarrassed one little bit to be seen with someone with a big head, I probably have a big head.

Forget about it, man. A head is a head.

If it took you a few months ago to notice you have a big head, you really don't have a big head.

Having a big head is something you notice your whole life. Not a few months ago.

Sorry, can't support you on this 1.

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The size of your head really doesnt become offputting towards looks or even your personality. It really doesnt matter. I get depressed over such little things myself so i understand. But i also realize that i often see something thats not as bad looking as it seems to be. Sometimes others can be judgemental and it leaves us believing it.

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Having a big head is really not a problem, ask BlockHead2111 xD

But seriously, don't worry about it, I doubt its that big if you've only just noticed and this is all just paranoia. I'm no master with the ladies but I'm pretty sure most of them won't turn a guy down because he has a big head

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To be honest, it wouldn't bother me at all. I'd care much more about the person you are. Personality and sense of humour are the things I look for, I can come to love you're looks - thats the beauty of getting to know someone.

I can understand how insecure you feel about it, though. I get insecure about stuff like this, too.


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It did. The thing is until that time, I never bothered looking at my head in the mirror from sideways. The weird part is from the front view, it looks normal and thats the only part I see when I look in a mirror. Also at other occasions when someone called me bighead I assumed it was for the sake of joking and it wasn't true, so I never bothered to look.

A head is a head...

...now "giving head" on the other hand...

If you have a good personality and are cool to be around, I don't see what the size of your head has to do with shit. I have a friend with a big head and we joke around about it sometimes and he even makes fun of himself sometimes, it's not a big deal.

Hopefully you will learn to live with it.

I don't care.

you must if you're depressing yourself over it!

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"you make my heart melt"

You don't care about what? What I said, or your head being big? If you don't care about it, don't post about it because no one else will care either.

If its such a problem.. Remove the problem :l

obviously you do care about it. But don't come to a forum trying to expect sympathy.
Also not a particularly smart choice of user name.

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lol..are you suggesting he..nvm.

Head size should be the least of your problems, really
I know a few people with fairly "big heads", but they don't care. You should love yourself for who you are =]

But if you're really worried about it, how about changing your hair style? If you get something that's long and layered to hide it a bit more.



Visual Kei <3
Sorry if it's not your kinda style. It's similar to emo- but it's NOT emo =]
Just to give you a sort of idea what kinda hair might hide your "problem" >.<

Or if that makes thr problem worse, then thin out your hair? (straighten?)