I'm new here, and I'm really trying to get some advice. Lately I've been feeling really down and depressed about girls. For about the past two years i've had no luck with girls. There's also this girl and I'm really attracted to her. She flirta with me at school, and im a little scared to tell her how I feel. Any advice?

first of all, welcome

secondly, you just need to be yourself. confidence is key but dont be cocky. are you shy? if you are that may be a reason why you havent had much luck with girls. all girls are different so there isnt a definite way to get a girl to like you. you just have to be friendly and talk to them and get to know them.

with this other girl you should get to know her better first. again, just be yourself.
try to find out how she feels about you first. that way you can have a better idea of how she feels before you tell her how you feel.

dont get so down on yourself. if these girls dont like you for who you are then they arent worth your time. its there loss, not yours. keep your head up and dont worry cuz one day you will find the one for you.
good luck

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Imnot particularly shy, I'm kinda outgoing. But what gets me so down is I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong :/ I'm nice, I respect woman, and it just never gets me girls. It really gets me down.

As bad as it sounds, ive turned to prescription painkillers before

And as I said this one girl, brooke, appears to like me but I'm afraid to tell her how I feel and find out she feels differently :/

Your probably not doing anything wrong - It's just the situation making you think you're doing wrong, when infact you're not. I can relate so much, i'm similar - I'm myself around guys, i'm a little shy and I give good conversation. But, it seems like it's never enough - they always want the girl who has no personality, but is willing to sleep with them. Although, only some guys are like this. Get's lonely.

Strike up some conversation with this girl, and get to know her a little? Then, once you feel confident enough, just tell her how you feel? Sure she'll appreciate your honesty, however, it's not easy to tell someone that you like them, so.. just take you're time. Don't feel pressured.

Hope it works out for you


SimpleGirl*

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I smile because I have no idea whats going on..

I don't know you but this reminds me of my and many other people's nostalgic moments.

So, this is what I would've told myself if I was in the same situation again.

Don't listen to girls advice, sure it's meant to be good but it's mostly misleading.

Anyone who say he respects(worships) woman usually fall into that friend zone crap and fails. Make her respect you.

Never take a girl seriously when you are talking with her. This is seen as if she can control you, therefore you are seen as being weak. Lighten up.