So here's the deal. There are three girls that I go to school with that I am interested in, and I think they all like me a little in some way. The first one, Hanna, isn't in any of my classes but I have a good relationship with her. The second is Heather who is a grade below but she's awesome. And the third is Katherine (Katie) who I have more of a friendship bond with, but I think she wants to take it further. However, I have no idea what to do because for one, I don't know how to talk to girls so well, but i'm not shy, and two i've never had a girlfriend before. So could someone help me out with this? Am I getting mixed signals and being big-headed or could something actually be happening? Thanks.

First of all, which girl do you feel the most feelings for in that way?
I think maybe you see the third girl just as a good friend but because she wants to take it further, you might be quite worried that if you dont take it further with her, that she may be upset or annoyed? I know it may sound difficult, but there must be one of the three, or maybe two that you feel more for than just as a friend.
Don't let their feelings for you make yours feel the same if you dont feel the same way towards them, because it may mislead them
As for being shy im guessing this is probably quite difficult for a lot of people, but like i've said in other similar threads, trying can get you far. The girl you like could feel the same and if so, then one of you would have to make the move
I guess you need to just think who is right for you.

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Don't let the factor of not having a girlfriend, or, you don't really know how to talk to girls become a problem here - don't let affect you, or you're confidence, i'm sure you don't but, just a heads up I'd rather have a guy that had no idea how to talk to me, then a big-headed know it all talk to me.. put it that way.

I guess it's all about trial and error here; you've got to decide for yourself who you think you'd get along better with, and, with any luck, have a great relationship with. I think time is going to be you're best friend here. Give it some time to see what happens with you, Hanna, Katie and Heather - then, eventually, you will come to know who you really feel for and who you'd like to make a go of things with.

Be careful though, in this situation you're going to have be honest with yourself and the girls. If you're honest with yourself and them, you'll be fine..

Good luck with it all

Support Leader,

SimpleGirl*

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Well yeah, Katie is a pretty good friend and when she thought I was going out with someone else she was really cool with it. The thing is Katie is really cool except I think it'd be weird if we started dating. As for the other two, I'll say it again but I get mixed signals from both of them. Like at a soccer game I really bombed it with Heather. I didn't know what to talk about and stood their like an idiot till some other guy came up. Hanna I've known since 7th grade. It's been on and off, the whole drama ordeal and stuff with her friends texting and stuff "she doesn't like you" and so on. But when I talk to her it's a good connection. My ultimate goal for highschool is just to have a good relationship with a girl, and right now i'd say its between Hanna and Heather. I'm kinda stuck because I'm not what you'd call the ladies man and don't know how to ask either one of them out ~_~.

Just find out which one makes you the happiest. In fact, find the one that, around her, you can be yourself! This will result in you being more comfortable around one of these girls. If you find yourself stressed out about impressing any of them, than that girl isn't right for you. You have to find the one you can be comfortable around. Kind of like a best friend, only a girl friend.

Good Luck!

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Find out which girl likes you most and ask her out.If i were you i would screw of the 3 of them ;]