ok well i need some advice in the last 6 months i did a lot of bad crap i ran away from home,wrecked my parents car,and started sleeping with my boyfriend well ne ways after i wrecked the car my parents found out i thought i was pregnant so my boyfriend and i had already broke up but i decided to tell him ne ways well him and his cousins stepdad came down to my house with a pregnancy test.it came back negative...but the problem is that was two months ago and i still feel like im pregnant i mean most of the signs are there...i dont know what to do

do another test, jus 2 make sure. sumtyms dere wrong so its best 2 do it more den once

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yea but i dont know if i am how to tell my ex

i cnt help ya dere, sry im not gd at dat sort of fing

wait 4 more ppl 2 reply, ppl give really gd advice ere

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ok thanx

Go to him camly and explain you situation and ask him for help. If you haven't told your parents do that it can help. Sorry gtg my time is almost up I post more later. I'll come up with some more ideas later okey, don't leave this topic, please

Pregnancy tests usually have a 1% chance of being incorrect, and you could've fallen into that percentile.

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Take another pregnancy test if you feel like you still are. Have you missed your period? That's a good indicator of pregnancy, but missing a period can also be due to stress and other things.

You might just be freaking yourself out. I've done that before. I made myself sick and I thought for sure that I was pregnant. But, I wasn't.

But, if you are pregnant, you need to let your ex know and you have to decide what to do. Tell your parents, too. They may be really mad at you, but they need to be involved in your decision, too.

Explain it to him without getting mad. If he gives you hassle, just walk away calmly, take the test. If it's positive, then talk to your ex and then your parents. Talk to your parents no matter what.

Hope that helped,

Beth

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If you take another test but still aren't sure, go to the doctor. they'll tell you if you are or not. Talk to your ex about it, and if he's not willing to help you through this, you may have to take legal action once the baby is born (if you go that route). But I agree with everyone when they say, get your parents involved. You never know when their advice and guidance is going to help you, and it could save you, incase something with your pregnancy goes wrong.

And yes, you could be just stressed out. The only way to know is to take another test.

If your ex isn't going to talk to you about this, he's the idiot. You both chose to have sex (hopefully), and you have to deal with it now. He needs to understand that you're scared, confused, and you need a shoulder to lean on. And it doesn't sound like you want to get back together with him, and he should know that you're only interested in your health, and your possible baby's health. It's not a ploy to keep him around, it's just something that happened, and you both need to act like adults.

Like the previous comments, don't get angry with him. That will just.. well.. we all know men are stupid when it comes to something like this. Just be calm, make sure you aren't blaming anything on him or yourself, and just step up to the plate for the safety and well-being of yourself and the baby.

Hopefully that helps! Good luck doll.

thanx everybody for the advice my parents were already involved with the first test and so was my ex he said to get an abortion which i cant do but he saw the negative and now he dont believe that the positive i got means that the baby is his

hang on a min, r u sayin dat u took another 1 n it was positive???

might sound dumb me askin dat but its l8 n im kinda tired so i cnt fink prop

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Your ex is acting like a deadbeat. He doesn't want to take responsibilities for his actions. The only thing you can do, that I know of anyway, is to take legal action and get him to take a paternity test.

yep i agree ^^^^

he actin lyk a dickhead, it takes 2 to make a baby so make him take responsiblity 4 his actions

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yeah thats what im sayin it was positive