ok so heres the story. My BF flirts with girls who flirt with him. i HATE it. it bugs me so much. i have never met any of the girls...but yet it still really pisses me off. I know that him and these girls message alot through myspace. So, i figured out him myspace password and read the messages (i feel guilty for hacking in, but i felt like i had to). it was just as i thought...page after page of girls flirting and him flirting back. and its not like they randomly met. they go to his school (me and him dont go to the same school.) so how do i confront him about these girls? i can let him know that i got into his myspace...so what do i do!?!? please please try and help!!!

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Art is Art,
Love is love,
Sex is sex.

For starters, the relationship is over.
If you have such trust issues and have to hack into his myspace then there is no relationship.
I'm sorry if that sounds harsh but one of the main foundations for a good relationship is trust. If there is no trust, there is no love.
Plus, he will know straight away that you have been through his myspace if you ask him about these girls.
If you really want to stay in this relationship, regardless of the trust, I'd say sit him down and talk to him.
Don't say you've noticed anything in paticular, just say you're worried about where your relationship is going and you want to know if he trusts you.
Tell him you have some trust issues and you want some assurance that he is going to stay faithful.
All guys flirt, it's just a natural thing, but it doesn't mean he is going to run off with the next slapper in a skirt.
If he promises you that he will stay faithful, then do not worry. If you worry about it and keep questioning him, you will push him away.
If he does run off with someone else, or cheat on you, then think of it as a Godsend, as he was obviously not worth it in the first place.

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