I have recently found out that I am 11 weeks pregnant and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend that I'm not ready for another baby. I already have two children who are 3 and 1 and I just don't want another child.

Those who say I should of protected myself against an unwanted pregnancy I did but the contraceptive pill I was taking, my body wasn't reacting to it.

I just need some advice on how to tell him that I don't want another baby.

Just tell him striaght away, if he don't care about your opinion,you know he not worth it. Just make sure your not being used for sex. And if you have sex again,use a condom,they're one of the safest contraceptives out there. If I was you,I wouldn't have an abortion though,its cruel.I'd have the baby and put it up for adoption.

If he loved you, he'd understand. Just calmly talk it out, and tell us how it goes =]

I told my boyfriend that i didn't want another baby and i was quite happy with the two we have. He was upset but really supportive.

Do you never want another baby or just not right now?

I think that was the best way to do it. He has to understand that you don't want another child, before your even 18 (I think thats right?). And if you're happy with the two that you have then that should be enough right now.

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Better to give all your love and happiness to 2 children, rather than be stressed out and over worked and all 3 suffer.

No I don't think I want another baby at all. The two I have already are enough for for me.

don't tell him anything and hope that he never notices.

TELL HIM!! if you already have two kids with him then just tell him he might not take it well Depending on his personality but still maybe you could put it up for adoption with a family that will let you visit.

Take it from me, DO NOT GET AN ABORTION, you will regret it. Not because it is wrong or any of the things you may hear, because it is something you will regret, knowing that you could have had this other life in your hands. Listen to this, I have a four month old daughter, we thought about getting an abortion but now that she is actually here, I couldnt imagine life without her. You said you had a three and one year old imagine if you got an abortion for one of them, they wouldnt even be here, you wouldnt have a precious little son/daughter to love you. If you dont want another baby, give it up for adoption, that decision will be the hardest one you will ever have to face but now they have "open adoptions." These are where you give up the baby to other parents who will raise them, but you still get to be in the baby's life, you will get to see him/her grow up, they will know who their mother is.

Go to Openadoption.com for more information

then what is the problem?

i think,no matter how he is upset,you'll understand you better as the time pass....you're a girl...he should think about this issue thoroughly and understand that you and your opinions about this are really important and substantial...

he will understand in time , he has to care about what you want if he loves you. its your decision in the end its your body, just dont do anything you might regred, talk it threw with him first tho

if u r 11 weeks pregnant and ur not ready for another child then u need to tell him NOW before its too late to do anything about it. find the best way to talk to him and just tell him exactly how u feel.

Get an abortion! DOWN WITH THE BABIES! DOWN WITH THE BABIES!

Maybe she should talk with her boyfriend before we do that...