Okay, So I know I am leader.
I hate following people, I like to be my own boss.
Unfortunately, I made friends that made me follow them. I was trying to find myself this year and now that I have, I realized the mistake I made. I let myself go behind my own morals and do whatever my friends said.

One of the friends that I followed a lot was very stuck up on herself. She would go in the mirror every morning and complain about her not straight enough hair, etc. After hanging out with her everyday, I started acting just like her. You ARE you friends. Anyways, i am so tired of being stuck on myself. So I am actually trying to branch of her now. I want to be my own leader....


anyways, can you give me tips to make sure that I STAY a leader.

Tips or experiences anyone?

can anyone reply?

Well, you have to be confident in yourself. Sure, everybody has something that they want to change about themselves, but you won't change. So, you have to learn to accept it and love yourself. But don't get overconfident because then people will think you're too cocky.

Have a positive attitude. Nobody likes a downer. Try to see the bright side of situations. You can join teams and clubs, and be a leader there.

Try to make the right decisions, even if it will be hard. Chances are other people want to as well, but they are too scared to do it by themselves.

Be your own person.
Don't let other people's decisions through you off or influence your own decisions. Be your own conscience, and decide what you want for yourself.

Tell this chick to take a hike.. she obviously is weighing you down, and making you feel inferior to her.

=]

__________________