How Do I deal with this

Lazer · 07-27-2007, 08:56 AM

I have a very bad feeling that the girl I am about to ask out is going to say no, so I am writing this in advance. I love her so much, what do I do if she says no? It will almost destroy our friendship... we will both be so nervous to even talk to each other... what am I going to do?

Kat[confused] · 07-27-2007, 09:13 AM

dont let fear get in your way. it only makes things worse. things might be awkward for a little while but if u guys are good friends. it shouldn't completely alter your friendship.

chelsey · 07-27-2007, 10:09 AM

If she is a true friend,this won't affect your friendaship together.
just go for it

let us know how it goes

chels x

Angelwings411 · 07-27-2007, 11:36 AM

Well,
you never know until you asked.
Besides, if you have had the time to grow to love her,
then what makes you think she doesn't love you back?

hazeleyesofjustice · 07-30-2007, 01:33 AM

I have to agree with everyone else. Don't let anything stop you.. and if she is a true friend, she won't let anything get in the way of your friendship. Best luck.

dolce_amore · 07-30-2007, 02:19 AM

You will never know what may happen until you ask.
DOnt let fear stop you when there is a possibility that she will say yes.
You will regret it forever if you didnt even take the chance and ask.

Kat · 08-01-2007, 10:54 PM

Yeah go ahead with it, im sure she would not end the friendship. If that was me, id personally be happy to know your feelings.

killbot · 08-02-2007, 05:04 AM

i had this same problem with the girl i like we are kinda friends not like friend friends we dont hang out but durning classes we talk abit and stuff and on msn we talk heaps.
she knew that i had feelings for her and all and this week i asked her out she said no and now her friends are trying to get her to go out with me.
i explained to her on msn that i cant stop thinking about her and stuff like that and that i hope our friendship wont be weird she said its cool i dont mind that you like me.

so just go ask her out you will feel crap for like 2-3 days after it(i still feel crap after 4 days but i really liked this girl) just do it if she is a friend asking her out shouldnt destory your friendship good luck mate =]

Phuck Buddy · 08-02-2007, 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Lazer

I have a very bad feeling that the girl I am about to ask out is going to say no, so I am writing this in advance. I love her so much, what do I do if she says no? It will almost destroy our friendship... we will both be so nervous to even talk to each other... what am I going to do?

you love her so much? You haven't even asked her out and you love her so much? ya....I'm gonna leave this one alone.

Poop · 08-05-2007, 05:44 AM

At least you have the guts to ask her out. go for it.

Beepem · 08-05-2007, 07:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Phuck Buddy

you love her so much? You haven't even asked her out and you love her so much? ya....I'm gonna leave this one alone.

agreed

you dont love her man, you just like her a lot

just ask. and be sure not to say anything like "youre probably going to say no...but do you want to go out with me?"

dont show signs of fear. girls can smell it

beautyqueen_62 · 08-06-2007, 11:19 AM

Don't let fear get in the way. Besides, if you feel this strongly, it would be far worse not to ask her out right? lol so go for it

$ air $ · 08-11-2007, 04:53 AM

do it do it do it. if youre good enough friends and she says no, nothing should really go wrong between you. just be sure to let it go if she says no.