Hey guys, I have a problem which I would like to discuss with you people. I am a 28 year old guy who got married about 3 years ago. About 2 years ago my mother died after which my father,62, remarried a woman almost half her age,32. My stepmother, father, me and my wife have been living together for the past 2 years.
Since my marriage, I have always had an unstable relationship with my wife, who at times has even gone back to her parents for as long as 3 months. I was never sexually satisfied with her and thus always wanted a change. My father is out of town 5-6 days a week on his business trips. My stepmother and I have been living virtually alone since the last 3 months as my wife has gone to her parents house after a long quarrel.
About a week after she left, my stepmother came to me and told me that she wasnt happy with her life and neither was I. She gave me an offer that I should sleep with her all the time we are alone in the house. I was already under much office tension and after some time willingly agreed to her proposal. Since the last 3 months we have virtually slept together all night and have been going out as well.
Throughout my marital life I have never received as much sexual and emotional pleasure as I have received in the past 3 months. Last night my stepmother gave me a proposal. She said she wanted to file for divorce from my father and she wants me to divorce my wife as well, who would be willing to do so anytime. What I want to know is will it be justified ethically and socially if I live with my stepmother and we have children and later on get married. My father is a wealthy financially sound person who wouldnt bother about this since he just uses her as a sex toy in the weekends. I, on the other hand, really want to leave my marital life and father and move on with this woman. She also desparately wants to have children and a stable and strong relationship.
What steps should I take in this regard and how should I work this out? I really love this woman and do not want to lose her at any cost.

That's kind of sad.
You should of divorced your wife before you did anything with your .. step mum ..

But, hey, if your marrige isn't working out - and neither is hers... I'd say just go for it. But, don't mistake lust for love.

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This sounds just a bit too obvious.. like from right out of a soap opera.

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Umm.. yeahh.

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Okay, first off, I am disgusted that you cheated on your wife. If things weren't working out between you two in the first place you should have divorced her before you did the wrong and cheated on her. How do you think this is going to make her feel, that you are divorcing her and going to another woman to feed your greedy selfish sexual needs? You don't even seem to give a damn how this is going to affect her. People have feelings, and I think this is downright wrong and dirty of you.
And if your dad is just using her for a sex toy she should have divorced him by now and shouldn't have married him in the first place. And who knows? This could really bother him too. You are both wrong for cheating no matter how crummy your marriages are. It doesn't matter. You made vows and you are betraying them, and call me a moral person or whatever but yeah morals aren't a bad thing.

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Why are you, a 28 year old guy, on a teen site asking kids for advice when half of them haven't even gone out on their first date?

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I was thinking the same thing.

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Well it is probably some teen who made it up.

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I guess he made this up and put it here for some kind of kicks.

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