I need a little advice about My ex boyfriend...

Wild'n'Crazy_Trish · 09-22-2007, 06:08 AM

Okay, I've known my ex boyfriend for about three years now. We met in an odd way. His girlfriend had sex with my boyfriend at the time. Well almost three years later after helping eachother get through our rough times, we decided to start to date eachother. Things were amazing during that first week. Calls every night. Myspace messages to recieve in the morning, and anything else cute that boyfriends do. I started hanging out with my best friend again after not speaking for a while, well so did he. He had dated her in the past. (the girl who slept with my boyfriend, yep that's her). He is now confused on what to think. He has feelings for both of us. After he broke it off with me, he said that I would end up marrying him. The next day I ask him how his day was and he said he didn't know because I wasn't in it. After that followed I miss you. My question is, should I keep him around even though he did this to me or should I dump him off? Please keep in mind that I truly love him.

Thanks,

Angelwings411 · 09-22-2007, 06:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Wild'n'Crazy_Trish

Okay, I've known my ex boyfriend for about three years now. We met in an odd way. His girlfriend had sex with my boyfriend at the time. Well almost three years later after helping eachother get through our rough times, we decided to start to date eachother. Things were amazing during that first week. Calls every night. Myspace messages to recieve in the morning, and anything else cute that boyfriends do. I started hanging out with my best friend again after not speaking for a while, well so did he. He had dated her in the past. (the girl who slept with my boyfriend, yep that's her). He is now confused on what to think. He has feelings for both of us. After he broke it off with me, he said that I would end up marrying him. The next day I ask him how his day was and he said he didn't know because I wasn't in it. After that followed I miss you. My question is, should I keep him around even though he did this to me or should I dump him off? Please keep in mind that I truly love him.

Thanks,

Well I have never been put into this situation myself, but I would suggest you just move on. Personally, if he doesn't have affection for you and only you, he isn't worth getting into a relationship with again [it only ends with heartache]

Wild'n'Crazy_Trish · 09-22-2007, 06:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Angelwings411

Well I have never been put into this situation myself, but I would suggest you just move on. Personally, if he doesn't have affection for you and only you, he isn't worth getting into a relationship with again [it only ends with heartache]

That makes sense

Angelwings411 · 09-22-2007, 06:29 AM

Good. Glad to help!

Wild'n'Crazy_Trish · 09-22-2007, 06:52 AM

Thanks for the help.

Angelwings411 · 09-22-2007, 06:54 AM

Yeah no problem at all.

Tumbl3wEEd · 09-22-2007, 08:21 AM

Well, i agree...but just make sure you dont regret it....theres nothing more that i regret more than turning down a girl i loved.....it sucks...so just make sure u got yur emotions straight before u decide.

Phuck Buddy · 09-23-2007, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Wild'n'Crazy_Trish

I truly love him.

ok...let's be serious now.... you don't. true love is mutual, and he obiously doesn't love you. he might like you. You're probably too young to even know love, etc etc etc.

That being said....if you like him, and you want to date him, you're going to have to make him choose. If he has to think about it, then he's not worth it. I mean its an easy choice b/c she cheated on him.

Wild'n'Crazy_Trish · 09-24-2007, 12:05 AM

True true true. I don't know what his deal is though. Everything was going amazing until she came back into the picture. You all are right I'm about to say forget him he isn't worth the trouble and move on. He is a great guy but if he wants to be with a cheater, who has cheated on him more than he could imagin so be it. I'm done playing these kind of games.

TheBush · 09-24-2007, 01:05 AM

Saying forget it, is never the easiest thing to do. But is the easiest thing, ever the best thing? Usually not....

Tell him to choose. If he can't decide on the spot, he's not worth your time. I mean come on.....a relationship is two people, being in it 100%. And if either one of you aren't in it 100%, it won't work. Ever.

MissV · 09-24-2007, 07:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Wild'n'Crazy_Trish

Okay, I've known my ex boyfriend for about three years now. We met in an odd way. His girlfriend had sex with my boyfriend at the time. Well almost three years later after helping eachother get through our rough times, we decided to start to date eachother. Things were amazing during that first week. Calls every night. Myspace messages to recieve in the morning, and anything else cute that boyfriends do. I started hanging out with my best friend again after not speaking for a while, well so did he. He had dated her in the past. (the girl who slept with my boyfriend, yep that's her). He is now confused on what to think. He has feelings for both of us. After he broke it off with me, he said that I would end up marrying him. The next day I ask him how his day was and he said he didn't know because I wasn't in it. After that followed I miss you. My question is, should I keep him around even though he did this to me or should I dump him off? Please keep in mind that I truly love him.

Thanks,

Your boyfriend is a schmuck.

Phuck Buddy · 09-24-2007, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by MissV

Your boyfriend is a schmuck.

Wild'n'Crazy_Trish · 09-25-2007, 07:15 AM

we resloved our problem, and we are back together. another bump in our relationship has rose. his brother lied to their mom and said that we slept together when we didn't. now we can't see eachother or talk to eachother until he moves out. he feels as if he has lost me and doesn't know what to do. I feel bad because I can't do anything about it. His mom doesn't believe us on anything. Now what should we do about that?

Phuck Buddy · 09-25-2007, 11:35 AM

tell the mom your pregnant with her grandchild.

Wild'n'Crazy_Trish · 09-26-2007, 04:28 AM

yah but i'm not pregant so how is that going to work out.