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AvaRenee 01-23-2011 07:13 AM

My sex life.
 
So, I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and we have sex often. Not that it's getting boring, but I guess just repetitive. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I could make sex more intresting for both of us. Also what are some ways I could turn my boyfriend on? What's some things that guys think are sexy?

Mr. Smuggles 01-23-2011 07:18 AM

Re: My sex life.
 
You dress up as batman and your boyfriend can be the joker. Have a sex battle

ben101 01-23-2011 12:07 PM

Re: My sex life.
 
Well, do you or your boyfriend have any fantasys? you could start by talking about them and maybe giving a few of them a go

Otherwise, you can make it different by trying different positions and doing it in different places, those are the usual ones, but doing something thats a fantasy for you will have a much bigger effect in my opinion, are you currently in quite a 'routine' as far as your sex life goes?

ANTI CONDOM 01-23-2011 12:17 PM

Re: My sex life.
 
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Originally Posted by AvaRenee (Post 1062624090)
So, I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and we have sex often. Not that it's getting boring, but I guess just repetitive. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I could make sex more intresting for both of us. Also what are some ways I could turn my boyfriend on? What's some things that guys think are sexy?

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First, how old are you? I'm not gonna give you advice to play out fantasies and shit....cuz come on. But on to business....tell me your age and answer these questions. When you two have sex, what positions are you on? Be honest. Is there any foreplay? Does he lick your pussy? If so, for how long? Does he make you cum just by licking your pussy? Yes or no? Does he finger your pussy? If so, for how long? Do you suck his dick? If so, for how long? Does he suck on your titties? If so, for how long? Does he lick your ass or buttcheeks? At least play with your ass as in squeeze? If so, for how long?

Now, how long does he actually hump you for? Is it like 5 minutes of fucking and then he cums? How long really?

Answer those questions and I will give you more detailed information on what you can do to make your sex life interesting.

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Torin_93 01-23-2011 12:29 PM

Re: My sex life.
 
Wow thats veryy uh detailed...^
Sex toys?

AvaRenee 01-23-2011 12:55 PM

Re: My sex life.
 
We don't really have like a routine usually foreplay is just limited to oral sex and then we do the same positions (missionary, doggy, girl on top. and like spooning) I'm really not into like anal but he does like spank me and stuff. The actual sex usually last anywhere from 20 to 40 minuets.

oh & I'm 16

Willardlol 01-23-2011 12:59 PM

Re: My sex life.
 
Role play is the best place to start :)

He can dominate you...or vice-versa

SMOKE. 01-23-2011 01:03 PM

Re: My sex life.
 
fight him, bite him, let him tie you up, get raunchy in new places, sub and dom, and if shit gets really boring or you're just down for it; threesome.

99balloons 01-23-2011 01:04 PM

Re: My sex life.
 
Watch some porn.
I'm not saying that to be clever, either; watching porn as a couple works for a lot of people. (And it's relatively easy. I mean, come on. A quick google search and bam.)
At the least, it's something to talk about together and consider.
Different things work for different people. For the most part, you're going to have to try out a few things and see what feels best for you both.

ANTI CONDOM 01-23-2011 01:34 PM

Re: My sex life.
 
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Originally Posted by AvaRenee (Post 1062624302)
We don't really have like a routine usually foreplay is just limited to oral sex and then we do the same positions (missionary, doggy, girl on top. and like spooning) I'm really not into like anal but he does like spank me and stuff. The actual sex usually last anywhere from 20 to 40 minuets.

oh & I'm 16

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Well, there is your problem. You say it isn't like a routine, but like it or not, your sex life is a routine. He comes in, licks you then you suck him, then a position. That, my lady, is a routine.

But you did not answer all my questions. The reason I asked all those questions were to help you out, but since you did not answer all of them.....I can't do much.

You did not answer if he fingers you. For how long? If he makes you cum when eating your pussy. How often and how long? Etc.....

I can't give you advice if you do not provide me information. Tootles.


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ivaiva 01-23-2011 02:58 PM

Re: My sex life.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by AvaRenee (Post 1062624302)
We don't really have like a routine usually foreplay is just limited to oral sex and then we do the same positions (missionary, doggy, girl on top. and like spooning) I'm really not into like anal but he does like spank me and stuff. The actual sex usually last anywhere from 20 to 40 minuets.

oh & I'm 16

You sound like you have a routine.
Trying different positions doesn't mean anal, tehre are lot of vaginal positions that you didn't mention.
Also, try different places where you can have sex and try different time of a day. If you usually have sex at the evening, after watching movie and cuddling - do something different, for example take 1h free at work and have sex in the afternoon. Or, some under shower when he's taking a shower.
Or have a quicky. Or watch porn together. Or masturbate infornt eachother and don't let him touch you. Or just don't have intercours, have just oral sex till both of you cum.

Simply - do something new and suprising.

Orn 01-23-2011 05:25 PM

Re: My sex life.
 
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Originally Posted by SMOKE. (Post 1062624307)
fight him, bite him, let him tie you up, get raunchy in new places, sub and dom, and if shit gets really boring or you're just down for it; threesome.

omg

Urdreamz 01-23-2011 07:52 PM

Re: My sex life.
 
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Originally Posted by SMOKE. (Post 1062624307)
fight him, bite him, let him tie you up, get raunchy in new places, sub and dom, and if shit gets really boring or you're just down for it; threesome.


these are quite extreme but worth a shot :p

SMOKE. 01-24-2011 04:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Orn (Post 1062624549)
omg

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Originally Posted by Urdreamz (Post 1062624633)
these are quite extreme but worth a shot :p

:smoke:
EDIT: Lmao neg rep

JennyColada 01-24-2011 09:30 AM

Re: My sex life.
 
There are a lot of really exciting things that you can do in bed to spice things up, and it's all about using your imagination.

-Read erotic literature together.
-Role play or dress up
-Use toys or lubes (some of my favorites are silicon lube and cock rings, but lots of other people enjoy nipple clamps, vibrators, etc.). These types of things would be easier to get when you are 18+ (and then you and your partner can go into adult stores together and shop/buy things, or just look for foreplay!).
-Food (whipped cream, etc. But you want to be sure not to get it IN you since that can cause a yeast infection).
I would also recommend reading some tips on oral, anal, and sex positions. Learning some new tips and tricks on how to embellish on the things that you already do (for instance, touching his balls when you go down on him, or maybe trying a different position) can really spice things up without going too far out of your comfort zone (since they are things that you already do).
-Dirty talk
-Webcamming, either watching each other masturbate, or having someone watch you, or even just watching yourself.
-Being in a different room or area (if you're normally in the bedroom try the shower, etc.).
-Biting, scratching, being more dominant (or submissive, changing up your "roles" basically).

Sex can get a bit repetitive after a while, especially if you're relatively inexperienced (since you don't really know what different things you can do and try), so it's not just you two experiencing these types of issues. Feeling comfortable with your partner and being able to talk about new ideas and feeling open enough to try new things really is what makes the sex life go from "good" to "great".


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