Okay... so.. erm...
Everything's going great with my boyfriend... Sometimes I want to please him for being such a good boy with me and... Yeah! :P I don't feel like having sex with him yet, I mean, okay, he turns me on, but I need to make sure that I can give myself to him... So, I thought that we can do other stuff alternatively...
Last time we didn't have much time to do stuff, so I thought of giving him a bj, BUT I have no clue about how to do this... What if I do it and he doesn't feel anything or what if I bite him accidentally?

I keep thinking about it and I laugh at myself, even for posting this thread... but I need to know...

Thanks in advance!

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Bullet For My Valentine

Just drop your head on his dick and all will be well.

Drop my head on his dick?? Ouch!
I thought I was supposed to use my mouth!

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Bullet For My Valentine

too lazy to type up my own list but here is what I found for you.

Blowjob Tips - Mixing it up

• Look into his eyes, while sucking his cock. This is the #1 piece of advice I can give. It brings you onto a new level. And men love to watch!
• If you’re not using lubricant, make sure he’s well lubed. Make sure your tongue is really wet and lick the entire shaft of his penis.
• To get your man excited, take his penis out of his pants or get him naked, and run your fingers very gently over the underside of his cock.
• If he’s not totally hard, just start to lick his cock and take it gently in your mouth because just like women, some men take a little while to get excited too.
• Breathe on his cock and blow gently with your hot breath.
• Gently massage his balls. Don’t squeeze, the testicles are very sensitive.
• Lick his balls or try this. Put both of his balls in your mouth. Use one hand to circle the top of the sac, and gently pull it down to the bring the balls together into a neat swallow able package. (He should probably be standing up for this) Make sure you cover your teeth with your lips and use your tongue to give his balls a good lapping.
• Don’t be afraid to use your hands on the penis too, giving good head involves using all your resources to make the experience exciting for your partner.

The actual Blowjob

• And remember, giving a blow-job is not just wrapping your mouth around the penis and moving up and down. While his penis is in your mouth, use your tongue to stimulate the head.
• Switch between mouthing it and licking it.
• Don’t just work the cock, it does belong to a human being. It is also important to look up and deeply kiss your man.
• Tell him how much you love sucking his cock. Tell him how sweet he tastes. Men love women that can talk dirty. (Don’t worry I will cover the dirty talk in another article.)
• Tease him by giving his cock a complete tongue bath first, until he can’t stand it anymore. Then take it into your mouth.
• Get your man naked and kiss and lick all the areas around his penis, don’t touch it. Lick and kiss his inner thighs. Then lick and kiss his balls.
• By that time he should be dripping wet, then start to go down on him.
• Simulate actual intercourse, lubricate his cock thoroughly, then with your hands slowly jerk him off but when your hand reaches the bottom of the shaft, take it into your mouth, but cover your teeth with your lips and keep the opening firm, so it feels like his penis is entering a tight vagina.
• Besides mouthing the cock, suck it. Deep sucks and quick little teasing ones, feel great too.
• While giving head rub the area, just behind his balls. Even though it’s close to his anus, it does give a good sensation.
• If you’re jerking your man off too, don’t just pull on his penis like you’re milking a cow. As you run your hands up and down his penis, squeeze it a little, just jerk the head a little. Be sensual about it, don’t milk a cow.

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You can't bite him accidently.
He will feel something, and that something will be very good so don't worry about that either.

James explained it very good and detailed and gave some good tips (even for me).
So, use hand (better for him plus with hand you are stopping him from going too deep), use tongue.
Licking and sucking balls is great but for me to do it he has to be shaved.
Don't do anything you don't like or don't want to do. Best what you can do for both of you is to enjoy it yourself (at least a little).

yeah basically James and Ivaiva summed it all up.

watching porn can give you a better idea on how it looks too, its all good and well to read about it, but seeing it in action is another thing, so maybe take a look, aside from that, its all about learning, your not gonna be great at it straight away, but you dont have to be bad at it

one thing im curious about, you say you dont want to 'give yourself to him' is that meaning your virginity?

Oh, and if you are thinking about doing BJ only because you want it to be over quickly... you shouldn't, you should afford him really good and long session.
Don't rush, let him enjoy.

don't worry most guys like them..
although my boyfriends doesnt want me to give him one. :/
i wonder if this is normal :/ :O ?

Hm, not really, people usually like to enjoy.... Idk, does he have some problems with oral sex or sex in general (thinking it's dirty or wrong or something)? Do you do other stuff? He gives you oral?

most of the time when people dont want oral sex its because:
1) they think its dirty or wrong
2) there very self concious
3) there not ready in the relationship

Well there is scraping. Some girls don't always realize that their teeth scrape when going up and down. Lol. That's pretty close to biting and it sucks >.<

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My bf loves that haha

I guess you just have to ask him. In general, they all like the same thing but there are little things that will vary between boys.

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its strange since ive never really had a good blowjob or one ive really enjoyed, ive just thought of them as like a warm up but its not something that ever really got me going or that really turned me on, but thats just me personally

Obviously I've never had a blowjob But I've heard that as soon as you have a really good one, you just want them more and more

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guess ill believe that once it happens