You have NO idea how MAD that made me. You CANT CHOOSE to become asexual. It's a sexual orientation just like all the others. It's part of who you are you cant just choose it.

fhbfbdskjfbkdsjbfdkjfbkjdbfkjsddkjfbdsjf I strongly DISLIKE people that make those sort of comments, considering IAM ASEXUAL. Sorry just pisses me off, when I'd give pretty much anything to be sexual.

But however, you can become celibate. Which means while you may still feel sexual attraction, you do not act on it. What-so-ever. HOWEVER, asexual means you don't experience the sexual attraction. And yes many people who are ace do masturbate.

But why do you want to be asexual?

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He explained it right here.

I hate bringing this up again, but being asexual only means you don't feel sexual attraction. SOME asexuals have sex drives including me. I have a sex drive, but I just don't feel a desire to have SEX. I still masturbate here and there like when I'm PMSing and horny...it has nothing to do with being asexual.

And its not as if being asexual would make you feel good about not having sex! Sometimes you feel really left out knowing that you most likely aren't going to experience it. I still want to have sex though...its like rocky road ice cream. I havent tried it but it sounds good so why not?

Dont try to get rid of your sex drive. Just take it easy. Stop feeling gulity about jerking off because that just makes it a whole cycle of guilt-lust-confusion and trust me, its much easier to concentrate on your emotional sexuality than what your hands do inside your pants.

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I'm completely in favour of everyone having their own opinion but it's not discussting and telling someone it is, isn't good for them, everyone must lead their own lives and not be blinded by the silly myths that something like this is bad, you're a teenager you will get urges and you will have to "sort them out" one way or another you can ask any doctor and they will tell you it's normal, do as you wish but dont be ashamed of which you do because both paths are healthy choices and I can assure you that me being a complete stranger know what you're going through, last year I was 13 and just like you and then I realised it's human nature and noone will judge you for what you do and you shouldn't judge yourself. Take my word for it, follow you're instincts, if yur body wants something give it, it because if you're body wants it then it's natural

think positive

^^ Hahaa that made me laugh

Try this: don't masturbate. There's like no way...

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keep yourself occupied

Agreed... I keep myself occupied with games that require relentless attention (first person shooters, fighting games). Another thing might be too listen to your favorite music on a iPod. I listen to music a lot at night to help me a fall asleep before I get a funny ideas about getting horny.

Dr John Harvey Kellogg (of porn flakes fame), the high priest of circumcision in the US, had a 100% successful "cure" for masturbation and advocated circumcision for pubescent boys and girls to stop masturbation: "A remedy which is almost always successful in small boys is circumcision..... The operation should be performed by a surgeon without administering an anæsthetic, as the brief pain attending the operation will have a salutary effect upon the mind, especially if it be connected with the idea of punishment... In females, the author has found the application of pure carbolic acid to the clitoris an excellent means of allaying the abnormal excitement"

Seriously you all are just misusing this thread, he asked on ways to stop it and not "ohh its ok its normal and that shit"

Anyway i got the answer to your problems

1)keep yourself preoccupied.
2)Workout, try to get a six pack cuz like this you will be too tired to masturabte after your workout!!!
3)punish yourself after masturbation, like for example if you masturbated, punish yourself that you wont play videogames for the rest of that day.

man seriously, how many more years are you going to be preaching that shit

1. Hold out your arms.
2. Look at what is on the end of your arms.
3. Cut those demonic fuckers off.

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I think that is normal for guys. Just don't neglect other things.

I am not "preaching that shit", just quoting the high priest of circumcision in the US. Fortunately the routine circumcision of baby boys is decreasing rapidly as an awareness of human rights is becoming prevalent.
A prepuce is not a birth defect. It is there for a purpose: to protect the glans, which is an internal part of the male anatomy, keeping it from drying out and becoming keratinized.
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