I am a 16 year old girl, who really needs help. I don't know why I'm comeing here because I know I can help myself but with this thing, I can't. Its about a boy, not a boy a man, a full grown man. Well this issue that you will read is not a lie, nor is it bullshit. THIS IS REAL. Oh yes he's 6 years older then me.

I've been with this guy for about 6months, he's an online bf, I've seen him on cam (no need to worry what he looks like), but here's the thing, we do some bad stuff, we know its bad and so on. I don't have cam so I'm out of luck, but I do have a video camera, so I use that so he can see me, and I do bad things for him in the videos. I've told him that I didn't know what I wanted, or I'm confuse about all of it, and we talked about it but we got in a fight because I was mad at him, and I wanted to tell him, but I couldn't cause I thought I would lose him if I did, and I was scared to tell even more stuff. And when he ask me to do it, he acts all sweet and stuff, and he does the same for me, he does stuff for me too. He tells me he loves me, and I love him. He says that he wants to make me happy in my life, and give me everything in my life. But does he just say this to get the videos? He's sweet, he's kind, he cares for others, and he's a Muslim, that's another thing I wanted to say, it was Ramadan, and he couldn't do anything bad, and so I didn't do anything bad too because I care alot about him, so we just didn't do anything, so when we weren't doing anything, it was just us talking, and I think we got along with each other even more, and loved each other more.

But anyway my friends tell me its rape, is it? To me I think it isn't, I think he just wants me to love him in that way, in all kinds of ways, and I would like that, but there's so many things that's wrong with it. He does the same like I said, and he does his best to love me.

This guy is my first bf, he's helped me, I know I've changed alittle since I've known him, and I'm more happy with my life, and I believe in myself more. I love him with all my heart. And don't tell me that he's selling the videos, or that he wants to just have fun, he's been with me for 6months now! So I don't think a guy who just wants alittle fun would stay in a relationship for this long.

Yes, you should stop.

Edit.


Get the fuck off the computer and find a real man.

There are already some alarm bells that it is all not-so-right. Let me elaborate

• He acts sweet so that you can give him videos of you doing the 'bad stuff'.
• If you refuse or get confused whether you want to do it, he gets mad at you.
• You fear that you would lose him if you stop giving him the videos.

A 22 year old who goes for a 16 year on in an online relationship just for sexual videos, sounds like a perp to me. As for the talking in Ramadan, I'd ask you to try keeping it up that way, not give him any more videos and see how long he can hold the relationship. Just because someone talks sweet and kind for time being doesn't mean he is an angel or even a nice person.

A 22 year guy who is desperate to have an online relationship with a 16 year old can have a 6 month or longer relationship just for fun. It is also possible that you are not his only fling online. Obviously he has to be nice to you, he is getting what he wants, he doesn't want to lose this opportunity. Not to sound harsh, but I don't call this love, it is nothing more than a desire to be loved/liked on your part and lust on his part. He may have something for you as he grows on you but thats about it. L

hahah you dumb hoe.

He acts sweet for you to do this.
If you don't feel comfortable doing stuff I'd say it's rape.
Get a proper boyfriend.
Stop this shit, tell him that you don't wanna do it anymore, block him on msn and everything.
What would your parents say if they found out?
You have to think about that too.

For all you know, he could be posting these videos online or even showing them to his friends. That is, if he has any friends.

Exactly, you just never know what he's doing.

yes i agree what every1 is basically saying is that DONT DO IT ANYMOre.

but..

if ur seriously in2 him and hav been chattin 2 him 4 6 months,
wouldnt the question of u two meeting up some day hav occurred in ur conversations? or like going further with ur relationship, instead of just online sex?

if not stuff him, oh and my personal thoughts - online dating is no offence.

online dating has homosexual intercourse with other online dating?

it just sounded rude.

uh oh