A question

Kate.x · 10-14-2007, 10:37 PM

I know a lot of guys who go crazy when they find out a girl is a virgin.
So do you like taking a girls virginity or would you rather have someone more experienced?
This is mostly for the guys but I know a few girls who like taking a guys virginity.

I hope that makes sense... I can't really figure out a way to explain what I mean to where other people understand.

BoxerDM · 10-15-2007, 07:37 AM

i dont think its because "guys like to take a girls virginity, its just because then he gets this little medal in his mind that he did a girl that noone else had done before, he was the first."

i think thats about it? but yeh i prefer a more experienced person just because, with someone where its their first time, they are quite timid and shy, i like rough and crazy haha

Kate.x · 10-15-2007, 07:40 AM

idk I just hear a lot of guys like it when a girl is a virgin.
I was just wondering if that's true and why

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But ya I can see why you'd want someone more experienced.

The Boob Lady · 10-15-2007, 07:49 AM

i think guys tend to like it because it's like a contest. virgin's are obviously less likely to put out, so if you take their virginity it's like OMG YEAH SCORE.
or so it seems to me.
IDK.

Josh · 10-15-2007, 08:25 AM

Or maybe that is only a few guys and we all aren't pigs?

I don't know just a thought..

2points · 10-15-2007, 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Josh

Or maybe that is only a few guys and we all aren't pigs?

I don't know just a thought..

Agreed. I think you are referring to many stereotypes of guys. Media likes to pump up this idea that all guys are dogs that just want to get the holy virgin. I could care less if your a virgin or not. I don't care if I deflowered you or not.

The Boob Lady · 10-15-2007, 08:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Josh

Or maybe that is only a few guys and we all aren't pigs?

I don't know just a thought..

i was actually going to add 'or maybe that's just because i have a bad perception of men', but for some reason didn't.

i know it's not the same for all guys.

Kate.x · 10-15-2007, 08:35 AM

I didn't say it's all guys. And it's not just because of the media.
I've heard guys in RL say it too. I was just wondering if how you guys on here felt about it.

ARehearsalForTragedy · 10-15-2007, 09:46 AM

wasnt this exact thread made yesterday?

Mayank · 10-15-2007, 12:24 PM

I tell you what I feel personally. Since I am a virgin, honestly if the girl is a virgin, it is a great turn on for me. A bit turn off if the girl isnt, but that doesnt mean I would turn away from her.

I can't say about no virgin guys because I don't know lol.

Shuffler · 10-15-2007, 01:30 PM

I'm a virgin. Hope I'm a tuen on. :P

Capt Sasha · 10-15-2007, 06:00 PM

I can't say about all guys, but personally it doesn't make a difference. If a girl who is experienced has hang ups from a previous relationship its a problem, if a girl who is virgin has a negative view of guys or is inhibited, its also a problem. It all boils down to the kind of person, really.

I can understand why some guys like virgin though, probably the thrill of being the first to initiate a girl to sex turns them on, a fetish. In other cases the guy might be insecure about his sexual skills and a virgin has no one else to compare him to.

Mayank · 10-15-2007, 06:54 PM

Its like, your the first one and maybe last one with her? And someone else hasnt kissed her, or had sex with her. Your the only one........assuming its your girl friend.

Thats how I feel.

Capt Sasha · 10-15-2007, 08:19 PM

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